Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required

[bhawani shankar verma]

you should better to contact any nearest organisation working for low vision 
and blind. you can also contact all india confederation of the blind. PH: 
011-27054082 They are running crisis intervention unit. you can get more and 
more confidence by contacting successful people.

-----Original Message----- 
From: turab chimthanawala
Sent: Monday, February 25, 2019 10:31 AM
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning 
the disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required

Hey Alvesh,
I am a low vision person suffering from LCA. Even my  eyesight has
reduced over the years.
Happy to chat. Please call me on +91 8087813609 anyday after 8 pm.
Best
Turab Chimthanawala


On 2/25/19, sazid shaik <ashwaqahmed....@gmail.com> wrote:
Good description, even It helps to overcome my struggleing

On 2/24/19, Shadab Husain <shadab...@gmail.com> wrote:
Hi Alvesh,

We’re adaptable. I too have gone through similar situations, and am
now living nicely. You too will feel better in some time.

The blessing of blindness is that it decreases our choices and
therefore we’re saved from so much confusion. When you have fewer
choices, you feel more contentment because then you don't regret for
the things that weren’t there on the option table.

Second, this might appear unintelligible to you, but as per one study,
people who get disabled feel more satisfied with life than others.

The reason behind this?

When disability meets them, they overestimate the difficulties and
frustrations that they may encounter. But as they steer their life
ahead, they uncover that life is far less tough than they had
imagined.

They enjoy simple things like navigating their way independently.
Doing bank work on their own (I withdraw thousands and thousands of
bucks from the bank and have to move around alone.)


In the beginning newly disabled folks presume that life would be
extremely sad and depressing, but they soon get adjusted to their new
conditions and things begin to look cheerful. Their presumptions
contrast with their new reality and they feel their little
accomplishments to be bonuses.

On marriage: You say that you might not get on well with your life
partner because of your blindness.

Maybe yes, maybe no.

Sorry, but no false hopes or encouragement.

The truth is that there’re many unmarried disabled people who’re
living successfully. And many disabled people are enjoying their
married lives.

Additionally, there’s a high chance for all married folks to get
separated from their life partners (disabled or otherwise.) Snoop
around a bit and you’ll find.

You can keep that blindness thing out of the equation.

Even if you get your sight restored, you can’t guarantee that
post-marriage everything will be rosy and fun.

I was scared of marriage as it were a raging hurricane, but now I’m
blessed with a good wife and two little children.

Besides having a good job, few of your blessings are:

You’re brave, optimistic, and resilient. Had it not been so, you won’t
have written this email.

You have desires. Had it not been so, you won’t have asked about
driving and marrying etc.

You’re a man of action. Had it not been so, you won’t have asked about
books.

(By the way, The Story of my Life by Helen Keller and How to Stop
Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie might prove rocket fuel for
your confidence.)

Fall down seven times, stand up eight.

Japanese proverb

I like you and will be grateful to help you climb out of your
problems. Ph: +91-7379668382.

Your friend,

Shadab



On 2/24/19, sazid shaik <ashwaqahmed....@gmail.com> wrote:
Dear Alvesh,

Even I am a late blind, working in railway department.  Married with
a sighted girl, my son is studying 7th class and my daughter is
studying 3rd class.  Certainly even I am passing same suitvation what
yu are.  in.  in 2010 i can ride bike but now I cannot walk.   my dear
friend tried to adjust with life.

Giving an example is easy but becoming an example is very difficult.

So adjust with the life and move on.

thanks and regards,
sazid



On 2/23/19, sanjeev kumar <sanjeevkumar0...@gmail.com> wrote:
Please read book jeet aap ki

On Sat, 23 Feb 2019, 1:59 p.m. Simran Chawla 
<simranchawla1...@gmail.com
wrote:

Hey Alvesh
I can understand your situation. But just think that whatever has
happened
or whatever is happening, is happening for a reason, for your good
rather.
Be positive, think positively. That will easen your situation. Being
negative will only worsen it.
This is the reason why we call life a roller coaster ride. There are
highs
and lows and you should enjoy every bit of it.
And the things that you want to do, those you can still do. Going to
market and enjoying with friends, you can do that, why not. Just keep
smiling :)

And the books if you want to read, read a book named “The Power of 
your
Subconscious Mind”. If you don’t find the pdf, let me know I’ll share
that
with you

Best Regards
Simran Chawla

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> On 23-Feb-2019, at 10:34, George Abraham <geo...@eyeway.org> wrote:
>
> Hi!
>
> I am George Abraham. Happy to talk with you and share ideas on how
> you
could deal with your life situation. Please do call me on Monday at
9810934040. You could visit me in my office and we could try and
charter
out a plan for you to move on with  life.
>
> Best,
>
> George
> George Abraham
> CEO
> Score Foundation
> 17/107  LGF
> Vikram Vihar
> Lajpat Nagar 4
> New Delhi 110024
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> Eyeway Helpdesk: 1800 300 20469
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> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On
Behalf Of Alvesh Shokeen
> Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:10 PM
> To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerning the disabled.
> Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required
>
> Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time
> for
me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far 
just
because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves
me
alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as 
they
will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near
future.
> I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market
> with
my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well
condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain
dependent
upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now?
> You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through
> similar
experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good
disability councellor to help me  to change my approach. I am really 
in
trouble.
>
>> On 2/21/19, Amar Jain <amarj...@amarjain.com> wrote:
>> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to
>> talk it through.
>>
>> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will
>> decide
>> your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230.
>>
>> Regards,
>> Amar Jain
>>
>> Sent from my iPhone
>>
>>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G <gvamsh...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>
>>> I am exactly like you.   Could drive a bike ten years ago but can
>>> not
even
>>> walk on the road.  Don’t read books or videos.   Meet and stay
>>> together
>>> with people who have similar conditions like you.  Peer  counsel 
>>> is
>>> the best medicine.  Will be happy to help.  Call me on 9949349497 
>>> .
>>>
>>> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to
>>> undergo this phase of life.  Most of us had seen it in our lives.
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> Regards
>>> Vamshi
>>>
>>>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey <mr.dubey2...@gmail.com>
wrote:
>>>>
>>>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's
>>>> difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me
>>>> let's see if I could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995
>>>>
>>>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen,
>>>> <alveshshok...@gmail.com>
>>>> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed
>>>>> government service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to 
>>>>> RP.
>>>>> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now
>>>>> everything
>>>>> is becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually
>>>>> losing the hope to live in this world. I cry all  the time after
>>>>> my
office hours.
>>>>> I feel lonely. I don't enjoy anything now. As I am most of the
>>>>> time
>>>>> engrossed into my previous sightful life. I feel everything is
>>>>> going away, and I feel very hopeless.
>>>>> Kindly suggest me any good books to regain my confidence to live
>>>>> in
>>>>> this life. Also tell me any video/audio content so that I could
>>>>> learn how to live life with disability.
>>>>> Please understand my situation, as I have almost lost all the
>>>>> hopes.
>>>>>
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