Hey Alvesh, I am a low vision person suffering from LCA. Even my eyesight has reduced over the years. Happy to chat. Please call me on +91 8087813609 anyday after 8 pm. Best Turab Chimthanawala
On 2/25/19, sazid shaik <[email protected]> wrote: > Good description, even It helps to overcome my struggleing > > On 2/24/19, Shadab Husain <[email protected]> wrote: >> Hi Alvesh, >> >> We’re adaptable. I too have gone through similar situations, and am >> now living nicely. You too will feel better in some time. >> >> The blessing of blindness is that it decreases our choices and >> therefore we’re saved from so much confusion. When you have fewer >> choices, you feel more contentment because then you don't regret for >> the things that weren’t there on the option table. >> >> Second, this might appear unintelligible to you, but as per one study, >> people who get disabled feel more satisfied with life than others. >> >> The reason behind this? >> >> When disability meets them, they overestimate the difficulties and >> frustrations that they may encounter. But as they steer their life >> ahead, they uncover that life is far less tough than they had >> imagined. >> >> They enjoy simple things like navigating their way independently. >> Doing bank work on their own (I withdraw thousands and thousands of >> bucks from the bank and have to move around alone.) >> >> >> In the beginning newly disabled folks presume that life would be >> extremely sad and depressing, but they soon get adjusted to their new >> conditions and things begin to look cheerful. Their presumptions >> contrast with their new reality and they feel their little >> accomplishments to be bonuses. >> >> On marriage: You say that you might not get on well with your life >> partner because of your blindness. >> >> Maybe yes, maybe no. >> >> Sorry, but no false hopes or encouragement. >> >> The truth is that there’re many unmarried disabled people who’re >> living successfully. And many disabled people are enjoying their >> married lives. >> >> Additionally, there’s a high chance for all married folks to get >> separated from their life partners (disabled or otherwise.) Snoop >> around a bit and you’ll find. >> >> You can keep that blindness thing out of the equation. >> >> Even if you get your sight restored, you can’t guarantee that >> post-marriage everything will be rosy and fun. >> >> I was scared of marriage as it were a raging hurricane, but now I’m >> blessed with a good wife and two little children. >> >> Besides having a good job, few of your blessings are: >> >> You’re brave, optimistic, and resilient. Had it not been so, you won’t >> have written this email. >> >> You have desires. Had it not been so, you won’t have asked about >> driving and marrying etc. >> >> You’re a man of action. Had it not been so, you won’t have asked about >> books. >> >> (By the way, The Story of my Life by Helen Keller and How to Stop >> Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie might prove rocket fuel for >> your confidence.) >> >> Fall down seven times, stand up eight. >> >> Japanese proverb >> >> I like you and will be grateful to help you climb out of your >> problems. Ph: +91-7379668382. >> >> Your friend, >> >> Shadab >> >> >> >> On 2/24/19, sazid shaik <[email protected]> wrote: >>> Dear Alvesh, >>> >>> Even I am a late blind, working in railway department. Married with >>> a sighted girl, my son is studying 7th class and my daughter is >>> studying 3rd class. Certainly even I am passing same suitvation what >>> yu are. in. in 2010 i can ride bike but now I cannot walk. my dear >>> friend tried to adjust with life. >>> >>> Giving an example is easy but becoming an example is very difficult. >>> >>> So adjust with the life and move on. >>> >>> thanks and regards, >>> sazid >>> >>> >>> >>> On 2/23/19, sanjeev kumar <[email protected]> wrote: >>>> Please read book jeet aap ki >>>> >>>> On Sat, 23 Feb 2019, 1:59 p.m. Simran Chawla <[email protected] >>>> wrote: >>>> >>>>> Hey Alvesh >>>>> I can understand your situation. But just think that whatever has >>>>> happened >>>>> or whatever is happening, is happening for a reason, for your good >>>>> rather. >>>>> Be positive, think positively. That will easen your situation. Being >>>>> negative will only worsen it. >>>>> This is the reason why we call life a roller coaster ride. There are >>>>> highs >>>>> and lows and you should enjoy every bit of it. >>>>> And the things that you want to do, those you can still do. Going to >>>>> market and enjoying with friends, you can do that, why not. Just keep >>>>> smiling :) >>>>> >>>>> And the books if you want to read, read a book named “The Power of your >>>>> Subconscious Mind”. If you don’t find the pdf, let me know I’ll share >>>>> that >>>>> with you >>>>> >>>>> Best Regards >>>>> Simran Chawla >>>>> >>>>> Sent from my iPhone >>>>> >>>>> > On 23-Feb-2019, at 10:34, George Abraham <[email protected]> wrote: >>>>> > >>>>> > Hi! >>>>> > >>>>> > I am George Abraham. Happy to talk with you and share ideas on how >>>>> > you >>>>> could deal with your life situation. Please do call me on Monday at >>>>> 9810934040. You could visit me in my office and we could try and >>>>> charter >>>>> out a plan for you to move on with life. >>>>> > >>>>> > Best, >>>>> > >>>>> > George >>>>> > George Abraham >>>>> > CEO >>>>> > Score Foundation >>>>> > 17/107 LGF >>>>> > Vikram Vihar >>>>> > Lajpat Nagar 4 >>>>> > New Delhi 110024 >>>>> > Email: [email protected] >>>>> > Ph: +91 11 26472581/2 >>>>> > Mob: +91 9810934040 >>>>> > Website: www.scorefoundation.org.in , www.eyeway.org >>>>> > Twitter: @georgebhai >>>>> > Eyeway Helpdesk: 1800 300 20469 >>>>> > >>>>> > >>>>> > >>>>> > >>>>> > -----Original Message----- >>>>> > From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On >>>>> Behalf Of Alvesh Shokeen >>>>> > Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2019 9:10 PM >>>>> > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues >>>>> concerning the disabled. >>>>> > Subject: Re: [AI] Urgent emotional support required >>>>> > >>>>> > Thanks for your support friends. But indeed this is a difficult time >>>>> > for >>>>> me. I am unable to accept this condition. I haven't married so far just >>>>> because of the reason that later in my life, what if my partner leaves >>>>> me >>>>> alone? I am unable to share my condition with my parants as wel as they >>>>> will be completely disappointed listening that I will be blind in near >>>>> future. >>>>> > I am always fantasising about driving bike, going out in the market >>>>> > with >>>>> my friends , but all of sudden I realise, I am no more in that well >>>>> condition to do these all things at my own. I will have to remain >>>>> dependent >>>>> upon others even for crossing the road, so what else can I do now? >>>>> > You are right, I should have such friends who have gone through >>>>> > similar >>>>> experiences. Let me talk to the people. If possible, suggest me a good >>>>> disability councellor to help me to change my approach. I am really in >>>>> trouble. >>>>> > >>>>> >> On 2/21/19, Amar Jain <[email protected]> wrote: >>>>> >> While I became blind in my early childhood, but more than happy to >>>>> >> talk it through. >>>>> >> >>>>> >> Acceptance and ownership of your disability in this phase will >>>>> >> decide >>>>> >> your future. Feel free to call me on 9892622230. >>>>> >> >>>>> >> Regards, >>>>> >> Amar Jain >>>>> >> >>>>> >> Sent from my iPhone >>>>> >> >>>>> >>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 7:35 PM, Vamshi. G <[email protected]> wrote: >>>>> >>> >>>>> >>> I am exactly like you. Could drive a bike ten years ago but can >>>>> >>> not >>>>> even >>>>> >>> walk on the road. Don’t read books or videos. Meet and stay >>>>> >>> together >>>>> >>> with people who have similar conditions like you. Peer counsel is >>>>> >>> the best medicine. Will be happy to help. Call me on 9949349497 . >>>>> >>> >>>>> >>> Remember that you are neither the first one nor the only one to >>>>> >>> undergo this phase of life. Most of us had seen it in our lives. >>>>> >>> >>>>> >>> >>>>> >>> >>>>> >>> Regards >>>>> >>> Vamshi >>>>> >>> >>>>> >>>> On 21-Feb-2019, at 6:47 PM, harshu dubey <[email protected]> >>>>> wrote: >>>>> >>>> >>>>> >>>> My name is Hari Narayan and I am am low vision too. I know it's >>>>> >>>> difficult to accept few facts but please don't loose hope call me >>>>> >>>> let's see if I could help you somewhere my number is 9821454995 >>>>> >>>> >>>>> >>>> On Thu 21 Feb, 2019, 6:23 PM Alvesh Shokeen, >>>>> >>>> <[email protected]> >>>>> >>>> wrote: >>>>> >>>> >>>>> >>>>> Hi all, I am 32 year old, unmarried and posted on a reputed >>>>> >>>>> government service. But I am gradually losing my sight due to RP. >>>>> >>>>> Erlier I was able to see the world from my eyes, but now >>>>> >>>>> everything >>>>> >>>>> is becoming blurred. The matter of the fact is, I am gradually >>>>> >>>>> losing the hope to live in this world. 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