I definitely agree with Mr Amith Bhat. why exclude romance and relationships from the spirit of inclusion?
On 12/27/19, Binni Kumari <[email protected]> wrote: > I believe and experience that true love is a journey and it evolves > over a period of time. Though, it is generally true that a partner > with a disability may be sympathised at first moment due to lack of > exposure/experience/knowledge/societal pressure/prejudice hence not > taken as a romantic partner but with the passage of time the > relationship may get deepened and may evolves into a mature love. But > I also opine that even marriages between abled bodies may not have > romantic lives simply because there is no mind compatibility. I also > understand due to societal biasis people also are afraid to express > their actual feelings. Though there is no denial to the fact of eye > contact but that's not the only reason instead the main reason is > more thoughts compatibility/non-compatibility. The law of the nature > is that each and every individual is incomplete in oneself unless > another comes to accompany the one. It is our ego that looks down-side > or up-side in oneself or another. I have learned over a period of time > that if there are less expectations from each other and there is a > space in each other's life for pluses and minuses then I think any > married life can go well. It is true for all human beings including > one having disability or not having disability. > > > > On 12/26/19, Asudani, Rajesh <[email protected]> wrote: >> As I say, exclusion may or may not be deliberate, but inclusion has to be >> so. >> >> I don't know how many disabled-non-disabled are love marriages, but some >> definitely are particularly when the other partner also has an actual or >> perceived disadvantage in the marriage market. >> >> >> सादर / With thanks & Regards >> राजेश आसुदानी Rajesh Asudani >> सहायक महाप्रबन्धक AGM >> बाजार आसूचना ईकाई MIU >> भारतीय रिजर्व बैंक Reserve Bank of India >> नागपुर Nagpur >> >> 0712 2806846 >> >> President >> VIBEWA >> Co-Moderator >> VIB-India >> President >> DARE-Disability Advocacy, Research and Education >> A-pilll = Action coupled with Positivity, Interest, Love, Logic and >> laughter >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On >> Behalf >> Of Rahul Bajaj >> Sent: 26 December 2019 01:28 >> To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning >> the disabled. >> Subject: Re: [AI] Blindness and being friend-zoned by potential partners >> >> Sometimes, it may very well be unconscious bias. People may not even >> realize >> that they are excluding someone as a potential partner when they actually >> are. >> >> Rahul >> >> >> Sent from my iPhone >> >>> On Dec 25, 2019, at 3:50 PM, sheik mohammedali <[email protected]> >>> wrote: >>> >>> Yes I also second this. >>> Strong reason is that since we do not make eye to eye contact they might >>> not be able to express their feelings and vice versa. >>> and first impression would be sympathetic when they see us with a stick >>> or >>> escort. >>> That is why we cannot expect the actual true love feelings with the >>> sighted partner. >>> But still there are exceptional cases like many of us have got married to >>> the sighted partners but how many are love myrriages?. >>> >>> Thanks and best regards, >>> Ali >>> Get Outlook<https://aka.noclick_ms/qtex0l> for iOS >>> >>> ________________________________ >>> From: AccessIndia <[email protected]> on behalf >>> of Rahul Bajaj <[email protected]> >>> Sent: Wednesday, December 25, 2019 2:17 PM >>> To: [email protected] >>> Subject: [AI] Blindness and being friend-zoned by potential partners >>> >>> Hi, all, >>> >>> Based on your lived experience, is it true that being disabled increases >>> the likelihood of a potential partner only considering you a friend, >>> rather than looking at you in romantic terms? 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