Well said, Vetri. But I am afraid any test available does not tell with any reliable certainty the probability of having a blind child. Then, it becomes difficult to decide.
However, there is a Unani medicine which has proved effective in our family and in some others, without any side effects hitherto, if taken during pregnancy. If anybody wishes to try, do let me know... -----Original Message----- From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Adhimoolam Vetrivel Murugan Sent: Friday, September 02, 2011 7:10 AM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it I think the fear is worth investicating and the desition to terminate the birth based on disability should be left to the parents. Which is not to say that blind parents cannot raise blind children, but no group should be dictating their decision making. Rather they should be helped in making an informed choice. Vetri. On 01/09/2011, jayantgarg1...@gmail.com <jayantgarg1...@gmail.com> wrote: > I know that there are endless arguments both in favour and against . The > amswer to your question is very simple the child will have the feeling only > when he or she is allowed to do so and not stopped to come to earth . The > doctors gave you probabilities and i have a simple question if we have > become v i is our life have stopped completely. When we can succeed in life > so will our children. Even the normal persons have to overcome many hurdles > there are many other discriminations in our society other than disability . > Because of these we don't decide to discontinue with our child. the child > have to overcome all these discriminations by his or her own . I am not > saying that only i am right and every other view is wrong . Ultimately one > has to take decision by his or her concious and inner voice as they have to > live by this decision forever. > > -original message- > Subject: Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it > From: mahendra <gal...@chello.at> > Date: 01/09/2011 4:25 pm > > the question is, would child feel okay, once he > knows, that his parents went ahead even after knowing that he can be > disabled? > > can we, or should we decide future of the child? wenn it comes to > disabletie? > > At 07:51 AM 9/1/2011, you wrote: >>I am 100% v i now. But at the time of my >>marriage i had very good vision i am married to >>a sighted girl but suddenly my vision >>deteriorated we had one child and he is normal >>till now and will be forever with the grace of >>god. Both of us had planned that no more child >>but now we are soon to become parents of another >>child and we had not planned for this no parents >>want that their child to be disabled . Do my >>parents want me to be blind but i am blind i >>know the difficulties a v i have to face in his >>day to day life . But it does not mean that we >>should not have the experience of or feeling of >>becoming a parent the most extraordinary feeling >>ofthe universe. I am sorry if i am hurting >>someones feelings but should we have the right >>to interfior with god wishes if we do so will >>god would not punish us . Lets assume that we >>dont continue with the fear of him or her being >>disable then can any doctor give us gurrantee >>that my first child will be normal forever . Is >>not it that it is again the wish of god. Then >>why we refuse to accept his most beautiful and >>wonderful gift . -original message- Subject: Re: >>[AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore >>it From: Anjina Bhat <anjina1...@gmail.com> >>Date: 01/09/2011 10:41 am Dear Raj I Think the >>chances of the blind parents having blind >>child is very less there are ceratin genetic >>tests which are to be performed and any good >>gyncologists shall advise you . it is being >>done in Ganga Ram Hospital if in delhi ------- >>But very safe test here is Real story of blind >>couple a blind couple that taught her the real >>meaning of love. There are times in life when >>Darwin’s principle of ‘survival of the >>fittest’ becomes the hardcore truth of life. >>When the desire to live gets weakened and the >>enormous beauty of the world fails to attract >>you. A physical disability, for example, has >>that kind of effect, when one gets overwhelmed >>by complications. It is during such times that >>the strength of the individual is severely >>tested. A few days back, I accompanied my >>maternal grandmother to a hospital for her >>cataract surgery. Hospitals do have their unique >>atmosphere. The first thing that will get you >>annoyed is the unmistakable smell of medicines, >>but that is certainly not the last thing that >>wreaks havoc with your otherwise peaceful >>existence. In the midst of screeching stretchers >>and critically-ill patients, I noticed an >>overwhelming reaction of two individuals. This >>couple was blessed with a baby boy. I think it >>was the most precious moment for them. Even I >>started feeling the same ecstasy, forgetting >>momentarily what I was here for. All of a >>sudden, something stirred my conscience and >>before I could understand anything, the new-born >>angel’s mother called me, and asked me, >>“Does the child resemble his father or does he >>bear my features?†It was a typical question, >>every mother asks, but what was so unique in her >>question that made me numb for a while was when >>I discovered that both the newborn’s parents >>were blind. I simply smiled and whispered that >>they were bestowed with a priceless gift of >>their life. The mother started relishing each >>moment. I wondered why each one of us becomes so >>worried in dealing with the most trivial issues >>of our life. Look around, and you will find >>millions of heroes struggling each day and >>emerging as winners with flying colours. This >>couple was an epitome of courage. Both were >>blind, and after eight years of their marriage >>this miracle had happened to them. This >>memorable experience has taught me so much. The >>blind couple’s divine love has changed my >>preconceived notions about love, and everything >>else we take for granted in our otherwise happy >>live On Wed, Aug 31, 2011 at 1:14 PM, RAJ >>VASWANI <mr.rajvasw...@gmail.com> wrote: > Dear >>group members and Dear moderator, > > kindly >>apologize me if this is an off-topic mail but I >>didn't find any other suitable platform other >>then this. > > One of my friend had got married >>2 years back and now he has got a good news for >>the first time that he is going to become father >>soon. > The problem is: that they both are blind >>from the birth and they don't want to born a >>baby with the same VI disability. > Kindly do >>try to inform me that is there any test >>available through which they can come to know at >>the very early stage of the pregnancy about >>this problem? > So that they can make the final >>dissection for continuing or not continuing this >>pregnancy. > Kindly share your valuable >>suggestions/experiences. > > Thanks in >>advance, > > Raj Vaswani > Search for old >>postings at: > >>http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> > > To unsubscribe send a message to > >>accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with >>the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your >>subscription to digest mode or make any other >>changes, please visit the list home page at > >>http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> > > -- Anjina Search for old postings at: >>http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>To unsubscribe send a message to >>accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the >>subject unsubscribe. 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