yes dear vamshi!!! your absolutely right.if we didn't spoke this kind of thinks in friend of our sighted friends, they will think we don't have such immosions.
I really learned this big lessen in my college life.so, once again, I appreciated your great commends, regarding with this topic!!!
thanks in advance your friend, Timy.----- Original Message ----- From: "Vamshi. G" <[email protected]>
To: <[email protected]> Sent: Sunday, December 04, 2011 10:02 PM Subject: Re: [AI] Socialising
Hi, Another important aspect in socialising is to involve yourself in all sorts of discussions. Many people feel disabled do not have certain emotions, which is a misconception. Once I went to a romantic movie along with my college mates, and many of them commented that even I was interested in such movies. I clearly told them that I am also a human being and had all sorts of emotions like them. I even questioned them why I couldn't, and shouldn't, have such emotions. And I involved myself in a very humorous discussion relating to that particular aspect. Later on I was invited into the group and became a very close friend of the group, who helped me in my academics by speaking out what was written on the black board. The reason I'm writing this is because some times disabled people feel they should act very decent in order to keep their image very clean so that others come to help us. But I feel we should be ourselves which make others feel that we too belong to their world. On 10/2/11, Chetan Soni <[email protected]> wrote:My teachers clearly spoke and i noted down using braille. I feel that the recording devices are the better option but braille is better than asking someone to write down the notes. ----- Original Message ----- From: "Phen Varghese" <[email protected]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Thursday, December 01, 2011 3:50 PM Subject: Re: [AI] SocialisingIf you want someone to help you to write what is tought in the class then there are two opptions. 1. Tell the teacher to write in your note book or tell her to tell someone to write for you . 2. By a digital recorder or a angel voice recorder. It will be useful. RGDS, Phen Varghese On 12/1/11, Rahul Bajaj <[email protected]> wrote:Yeah, that is a good idea. Even I was thinking that I should do that after 12th. Usually, when the sighted escort is not available, I go with my driver only. A driver is more than enough. But the only problem is that I need someone to note down what is taught in the class. On 01/12/2011, Asudani, Rajesh <[email protected]> wrote:Good Rahul. My theory about escorts says that totally blind person should opt for escort if the escort is available, affordable and there are no privacy concerns. In your case, escort is available/affordable. But there are privacy concerns. However, Rahul, when you have a driver, I don't think you require a separate sighted escort. Driver can drop you wherever you wish and then mobility inside is not such a big issue. Friends and people around are sufficient. So, with a driver, I do not think you need a separate escort. Learning basic handling of cane etc. is of course called for. I advocate escorts mainly for outside mobility which is of course reduced in your case, since you use a private transport with a fixed driver. -----Original Message----- From: [email protected][mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Rahul BajajSent: Thursday, December 01, 2011 2:19 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [AI] Socialising Rajesh Sir, I completely agree with you. In fact, even I think that privacy can be an issue when one is with an escort. It is for this reason that I always try to ensure that my friends don't feel like they're being constantly scrutinized by an outsider. Once, when a very good sighted friend of mine had called me for his birthday party, I asked my sighted guide to drop me to the place where I and my friends were going to meet. I told him that I would call him after the party and asked him to wait in the car till then. On another occasion, when me and my friends went for a movie, I asked my sighted guide to drop me to my seat and to go and sit at a different place. Am I doing enough? Is there anything else that you can suggest to deal with this issue of privacy? BTW, which are the other requirements of your theory about desirability of escorts? :) On 01/12/2011, Rahul Bajaj <[email protected]> wrote:Ravindra Sir, I really appreciate your suggestions. However, it would be wrong to assert that I'm concentrating on socialising at the cost of my studies. In fact, my parents and others who know me say that my main problem is that I study way too much :P Studies can only take you so far in life. Anyway, thank you for your wishes, and I'll keep your suggestions in mind. On 01/12/2011, Asudani, Rajesh <[email protected]> wrote:Well, I can fully understand rahul's predicament.So, advice to concentrate on studies and so on is too, too moralisticand beside the point. Specifically Rahul, here the third requirement of my theorum about desirability of escorts is being violated, i.e. the constant sighted escort is intruding upon your privacy and your friends may not like it and consider you an intrusion.So, try to restrict your sighted escort to the essential tasks and notuse him/her for collective activities such as outings with friends. I know you will have to work your way to it. All the best. -----Original Message----- From: [email protected][mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of RavindraJadhav Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 7:00 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [AI] Socialising High Rahul, Why do you like someone's company? I fully agree with this sentence. I think first of all you concentrate more on your study. Best of luck for your HSC exam. Don't thinks negative. Now see how many reply come to you? These are all friends, so why are you worry? On 11/30/11, ekinath ekinath <[email protected]> wrote:Hey Rahul, Got some time from office work so couldn't stop butting in. All brilliant points except one where there is a need mentioned for discussing it out with your friends. In my opinion, should not be done so, you will only seek sympathy and would emotionally induce yourfriends to hang out with you but they would not get convinced. DO itthrough action and performance. How?Buddy, think little practically by keeping aside depressing emotionsfor a little time. Why do you like someone's company? Are you getting some answers? It's your independence of mobility, body language, personality, talking skills, knowledge of relevant things, flexibility and rendering help. Cheerful smile and sense of humor attract embrace from people.You must be possessing many of above mentioned qualities. Capitalizeon it. People will not come to you unless they believe that you add value to their lives in any which way. To be specific, try to normalize your life style as much as you can with your mainstream peers. You should be at least partially independent in mobility to gain others confidence in you. How do you walk to your place after getting down from your car? Who picks up your bag and carry it?Does always your aid only find things for you before you extend yourhands? Then time to thing and act my friend. Even though blessed with multiple difficulties, I have lived anexcellent college life. And those joyous moments and friends are real treasures of my life. Therefore, make the most of it. That time nevercomes back. Finally, keep your head high exuberating brilliance, confidence and substance with a little smile and things will fall in place. Good luck Do call me on Sundays if need be. I would like to know about a girl you like. Joking. Haha! Pardon me if you didn't like any of the things mentioned above. ~Cheers On 11/27/11, Rahul Bajaj <[email protected]> wrote:Hi all, I hope you all are well.Like I've mentioned in my earlier posts, I'm 17 and am currently in12th grade. I have quite a few sighted friends, but I've noticed that they hardlyever call me when they go for movies, have birthday parties or haveget-togethers. I feel that my visual impairment is a major reason for this. We have appointed a sighted guide who goes with me everywhere.So, I often get depressed and frustrated when my friends don't callme.In fact, for me, this is the biggest challenge that I currently haveto face due to my visual impairment. I can't even ask my friends if they don't call me because of my visual problem, because none of them will ever admit it. So, has anyone here faced this problem? Please share your views and suggestions. 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