Rajesh Sir, I completely agree with you. In fact, even I think that privacy can be an issue when one is with an escort.
It is for this reason that I always try to ensure that my friends don't feel like they're being constantly scrutinized by an outsider. Once, when a very good sighted friend of mine had called me for his birthday party, I asked my sighted guide to drop me to the place where I and my friends were going to meet. I told him that I would call him after the party and asked him to wait in the car till then. On another occasion, when me and my friends went for a movie, I asked my sighted guide to drop me to my seat and to go and sit at a different place. Am I doing enough? Is there anything else that you can suggest to deal with this issue of privacy? BTW, which are the other requirements of your theory about desirability of escorts? :) On 01/12/2011, Rahul Bajaj <[email protected]> wrote: > Ravindra Sir, > > I really appreciate your suggestions. > However, it would be wrong to assert that I'm concentrating on > socialising at the cost of my studies. > In fact, my parents and others who know me say that my main problem > is that I study way too much :P > Studies can only take you so far in life. > Anyway, thank you for your wishes, and I'll keep your suggestions in mind. > > On 01/12/2011, Asudani, Rajesh <[email protected]> wrote: >> Well, I can fully understand rahul's predicament. >> So, advice to concentrate on studies and so on is too, too moralistic and >> beside the point. >> >> Specifically Rahul, here the third requirement of my theorum about >> desirability of escorts is being violated, i.e. the constant sighted >> escort >> is intruding upon your privacy and your friends may not like it and >> consider >> you an intrusion. >> So, try to restrict your sighted escort to the essential tasks and not >> use >> him/her for collective activities such as outings with friends. >> I know you will have to work your way to it. >> All the best. >> >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: [email protected] >> [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Ravindra >> Jadhav >> Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 7:00 PM >> To: [email protected] >> Subject: Re: [AI] Socialising >> >> High Rahul, >> Why do you like someone's company? >> I fully agree with this sentence. >> I think first of all you concentrate more on your study. >> Best of luck for your HSC exam. >> Don't thinks negative. >> Now see how many reply come to you? >> These are all friends, so why are you worry? >> >> >> >> On 11/30/11, ekinath ekinath <[email protected]> wrote: >>> Hey Rahul, >>> >>> Got some time from office work so couldn't stop butting in. >>> >>> All brilliant points except one where there is a need mentioned for >>> discussing it out with your friends. In my opinion, should not be done >>> so, you will only seek sympathy and would emotionally induce your >>> friends to hang out with you but they would not get convinced. DO it >>> through action and performance. >>> >>> How? >>> Buddy, think little practically by keeping aside depressing emotions >>> for a little time. Why do you like someone's company? >>> >>> Are you getting some answers? >>> It's your independence of mobility, body language, personality, >>> talking skills, knowledge of relevant things, flexibility and >>> rendering help. Cheerful smile and sense of humor attract embrace from >>> people. >>> >>> You must be possessing many of above mentioned qualities. Capitalize >>> on it. People will not come to you unless they believe that you add >>> value to their lives in any which way. To be specific, try to >>> normalize your life style as much as you can with your mainstream >>> peers. >>> >>> You should be at least partially independent in mobility to gain >>> others confidence in you. >>> How do you walk to your place after getting down from your car? >>> Who picks up your bag and carry it? >>> Does always your aid only find things for you before you extend your >>> hands? >>> >>> Then time to thing and act my friend. >>> >>> Even though blessed with multiple difficulties, I have lived an >>> excellent college life. And those joyous moments and friends are real >>> treasures of my life. Therefore, make the most of it. That time never >>> comes back. >>> >>> Finally, keep your head high exuberating brilliance, confidence and >>> substance with a little smile and things will fall in place. >>> >>> Good luck >>> Do call me on Sundays if need be. I would like to know about a girl you >>> like. >>> Joking. Haha! >>> >>> Pardon me if you didn't like any of the things mentioned above. >>> >>> ~Cheers >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> On 11/27/11, Rahul Bajaj <[email protected]> wrote: >>>> Hi all, >>>> >>>> I hope you all are well. >>>> Like I've mentioned in my earlier posts, I'm 17 and am currently in >>>> 12th >>>> grade. >>>> I have quite a few sighted friends, but I've noticed that they hardly >>>> ever call me when they go for movies, have birthday parties or have >>>> get-togethers. >>>> I feel that my visual impairment is a major reason for this. >>>> We have appointed a sighted guide who goes with me everywhere. >>>> >>>> So, I often get depressed and frustrated when my friends don't call me. >>>> In fact, for me, this is the biggest challenge that I currently have >>>> to face due to my visual impairment. >>>> I can't even ask my friends if they don't call me because of my visual >>>> problem, because none of them will ever admit it. >>>> >>>> So, has anyone here faced this problem? >>>> Please share your views and suggestions. >>>> >>>> Cheers, >>>> Rahul >>>> >>>> >>>> Search for old postings at: >>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >>>> >>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>> [email protected] >>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>> >>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>> please >>>> visit the list home page at >>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>> >>>> >>> >>> >>> -- >>> "The waves breaking on the surface draw all the attention, >>> but it is the current beneath the water that determines your direction." >>> >>> >>> Search for old postings at: >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>> [email protected] >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please >>> visit the list home page at >>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>> >>> >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> [email protected] >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please >> visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> >> Notice: This email and any files transmitted with it are confidential and >> intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are >> addressed. 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