Para finalizar, una crítica JAMAS es destructiva. Ofensiva, tal vez, descortés, puede ser; inutil jamás.
Sos muy suceptible y tenés que aprender a aceptar críticas, porque está en vos en ver más allá de las críticas y llegar a la opinión útil para sacarle provecho.
Suerte, Gus y no te desanimes.
Dank
--English Translation--
Gustavo, don't be wussy. What Youness said is true, a comment is constructive if the criticism shows and describes the errors, no matter the emphasis given. (eg, the colorbar has a stinky color, it's a piece of crap) A criticism is not constructive if it is fanatic and unfounded, not mentioning any details of the mistake or being offtopic. (eg, you suck)
To wrap-up, a criticism NEVER is destructive. Offensive, maybe, unpolite, possibly; but never USELESS.
You are too susceptible to criticism and you have to learn to accept it, because it is only in you to see through the critics and take advantage of the useful opinions.
I wish you good luck Gus and do not give up.
Dank
On 10/24/06, Youness Alaoui <[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
Relax gus, it was a CRITIC, if you want to be a good designer, graphic artist, you have to LEARN how to ACCEPT CRITICS,
the dull/dirt/grubby (and "who knows what more") are a description of the feel of the colorbar.. if they said "I don't
like it", you would have yelled that it's not a constructive comment because they didn't say what they disliked in it.
If you intend to participate in improving the default skin, you have to learn to accept critics.. I thought we already
discussed this a long time ago on IRC and I thought you learned your lesson, but it seems you didn't. AND I AM FED UP
with all those messages you get 'I don't like this, but please don't take it the wrong way, I just want to help, but the
rest of your work, I swear is great, you're a great man"... there have already been a few on this mailing list in this
thread, and I'm not even counting the numerous "I swear you did a great job and please don't take my comment the wrong
way" that are on the forums.. you have a personality which says "I just want to be praised and I refuse anything that
says what I did is bad".. WAKE UP!!!!! this is a community here, we all work together, not one against the other, and if
you want to be part of the community you have to let people speak AS THEY LIKE. If I want to tell you "your work is crap,
just toss it in the trash, it's worthless, I hate it", you should answer with "ok, thx for letting me know your feeling,
I'll try to make it better next time". Ask Lee, he had a huge load of disgustful critics and insults on his skin, yet he
accepted them. It was painful and I understand that, but he was also mature enough to understand that it's how people
felt with his skin.
I DO NOT WANT ANYONE TO BE HYPOCRITE ANYMORE WITH GUS. If you hate something, tell him straight "that colorbar is shit",
if I see another hypocrite "don't take it wrong" message, I'll be yelling myself at the one who wrote it. Gus, you need
to "not take it the wrong way" yourself without people explicitly saying it.
Tom, you gave a constructive comment, and I prohibit you from apologizing to Gus, he has to learn one day on another to
accept critics.
Now Gus, you have two choices :
1 - Apologize for your bad temper and start being nicer
2 - ignore this mail, don't answer it until we straighten this thing out on private over MSN.
Anyways, I also have other stuff to straighten out with you about the improved default skin.
Now everyone.. nothing more to see, get back to work!
KaKaRoTo
On Mon, Oct 23, 2006 at 09:23:23PM -0300, Gustavo A. Díaz wrote:
> 2006/10/23, [EMAIL PROTECTED] < [EMAIL PROTECTED]>:
> >
> >One thing I'd say about the contact list is thwe divider between the top
> >and bottom (the blue crystal bar thing) looks ugly to me - even though it's
> >smaller than before. I think a thin grey line (possibly fading to either
> >side) would suit your skin far better.... that bar to me just looks chunky
> >and out of place (the drop shadow especially gives it a dull/dirty/grubby
> >look)
> >Just my opinion :)
> >
> >I do like the buddy icons though :)
> >Btw, how are you having a background image on the menubar? I hope you
> >realise we cant use pixmapmenu :P
> >Tom
> >
>
> ... Something i forgot to say because i was hurry, like i don't like to keep
> things.... Please give constructive suggestion, not destructive ones... if
> you dislike the colorbar, will be enought to say "i dislike it, does not go
> with the skin, etc etc etc". Not dull/dirty/grubby/uggly/chunky [...] and
> who knows what more...
> Maybe is to much to ask?
> Just my opinion :)
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