I have been researching my grandfather in the hopes of writing a history 
for the coming generations  and to satisfy the curiosity of my family about 
their heritage.

After some research, I find that the kindly old man that I knew as a child 
may not have been all that nice.  Stories are starting to arise of abuse, 
excessive drinking, and estrangement of his children.

My father was a product of his second marriage and cared a lot for his 
parents.  Vovoo was an old man of 75 when I was born, and I only knew a 
sweet, kind old man who loved me.  Now, I am finding that the children of 
his first marriage did not hold him in such high esteem.

So, my question for the group is:  If you were putting together a family 
history for the generations to come, how would you handle this?

Most of the stories are hearsay as there is no one alive with direct 
knowledge, but there must be something to them.

I am inclined to be very honest in relating family stories, but I wonder 
how some of you might handle this.

Thanks for your input,

Len

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