sometimes that second marriage was a second chance.   Whatever it was as
you say it's hearsay.   Your family history is exactly that  YOUR
history.   Facts are facts.   Like births, deaths etc.


On Mon, Sep 10, 2012 at 11:36 AM, Leonard Silva <[email protected]>wrote:

> I have been researching my grandfather in the hopes of writing a history
> for the coming generations  and to satisfy the curiosity of my family about
> their heritage.
>
> After some research, I find that the kindly old man that I knew as a child
> may not have been all that nice.  Stories are starting to arise of abuse,
> excessive drinking, and estrangement of his children.
>
> My father was a product of his second marriage and cared a lot for his
> parents.  Vovoo was an old man of 75 when I was born, and I only knew a
> sweet, kind old man who loved me.  Now, I am finding that the children of
> his first marriage did not hold him in such high esteem.
>
> So, my question for the group is:  If you were putting together a family
> history for the generations to come, how would you handle this?
>
> Most of the stories are hearsay as there is no one alive with direct
> knowledge, but there must be something to them.
>
> I am inclined to be very honest in relating family stories, but I wonder
> how some of you might handle this.
>
> Thanks for your input,
>
> Len
>
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