Hi Everyone, I would like to thank everyone once again for all the hard work. Because of this forum someone found the marriage certificate who stated Laura's parents. This helped me very much because I can now rule out this Laura from my possible Lauras. I was really excited because the approximate age, two sons being about the right age and date of death and where she died being right. This is an excellent forum and I hope that I can help when someone asks.
I am sorry that someone feels like I led them on a goose chase this was not my intent. Helda On Thursday, May 22, 2014 4:01:43 PM UTC-5, Doug da Rocha Holmes wrote: > > Hello John, > > I had a similar reaction. I thought, wow, that's harsh - my exact words to > Helda in private. > For me, I got interested when this Moniz family actually came from Pico, > because I figured it was way more likely to have come from Sao Miguel, even > though I know plenty from Pico. It took me only 10 minutes to add the > family and all ancestors to my database, now going back to the early 1600s. > It was for my own benefit and no waste of time, whether or not they were > also Helda's people. > > In Helda's defense, she said right up front there is a pai incognito > involved. She was skeptical from the beginning this was the right person. > But with so many people jumping in, it got a life of its own and she can't > be blamed for everyone bending over backwards to see who is the most > helpful. > > Some people ask and get help, but never thank the helper. If that happens > to me, that's the end of any help by me to them. But everyone needs to cut > beginners some slack and for the benefit of this list, don't slam the door > on their faces. > > Doug da Rocha Holmes > Sacramento, California > Pico & Terceira Genealogist > 916-550-1618 > www.dholmes.com > > > -------- Original Message -------- > Subject: Re: [AZORES-Genealogy] Need help to solve a mystery for my > uncle. > From: "'John Raposo' via Azores Genealogy" > <[email protected]<javascript:> > > > Date: Thu, May 22, 2014 1:29 pm > To: "[email protected] <javascript:>" > <[email protected]<javascript:> > > > > Dear Edgar, > > I don't agree with your judgment which seems rather harsh to me. > > Speaking only for myself, my work on the list is a pleasant pastime, so > the time is not really wasted. In fact, it helps keep the genealogical > sleuthing skills sharp. Naturally, if I had been asked to drop everything > to help somebody find a relative, only to find that I had been sent on a > needless, time consuming fool's errand because someone had omitted > important information, then I would be very annoyed. But that wasn't the > case here. > > Of course, had I taken Helda on as a client, and worked for a fee, she > would have needlessly wasted her money. My time would not have been wasted > since I would have been paid for the time spent on the goose chase. > > I was impressed at how many people took up the search and how quickly we > all got to the bottom of things. > > John > On Thursday, May 22, 2014 1:20 PM, luiznoia . > <[email protected]<javascript:>> > wrote: > > > Helda, > > If you had posted the information you had when you first posted , you > could have saved the many people the hours spent chasing the wrong person. > > You do not deserve anymore of our help. > > Eric Edgar > > > -- For options, such as changing to List, Digest, Abridged, or No Mail (vacation) mode, log into your Google account and visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/Azores. Click in the blue area on the right that says "Join this group" and it will take you to "Edit my membership." --- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Azores Genealogy" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. Visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/azores.
