Re: Ulterior motive friendships

[E Crowell]

Title: Re: Ulterior motive friendships

Dear David,
Being a Baha’I and an introvert can be very difficult at times.  I am friendly but am close to very few people. Some are Baha’is,
 others are not. I am attracted to people who think deeply and are sensitive to the emotional tone of others. Since I am concerned with the wellbeing of human beings, no matter their affiliation or lifestyle , I’ve been a friend to numerous isolated, traumatized, mentally & physically ill people. I’ve given what comfort & companionship I could, and sought to share the message with them. Some became Baha’is others did not, but few actually became intimates.

I’ve found that  friendship covers a wide range of relationships, ranging from acquaintances & associates to actual friends. Some become friends because of similar interests, others because of shared experiences and/or beliefs, others because we share a deep emotional sympathy with each other. Since I am not into superficial relationships, I’m inclined to  be friendly but aloft unless we connect emotionally & spiritually. I work at being supportive, accepting and appreciative of those I meet and while we may not become close friends,  I’m pretty sure I’m not prompted by ulterior motives. If I meet someone I can’t connect with on any level (which is rare) I leave them to other Baha’is. That way I can maintain my integrity and authenticity, without which none of us can become a real friend.

Sincerely,
Elainna ----------
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