In a message dated 2/28/2003 10:10:27 PM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
> I guess I'm seeking advice or reassurance that my home and lifestyle will > accomidate a Berner. Hi Kenny, I think Liz answered many of your specific questions very well so I'll just offer a bit of the 'big picture'. Adding a Bernese to your home and family WILL have a big impact on your home and family <g>. A large part of that impact is wonderful and the reason some of us can't imagine life without a Berner on our feet. Over time, a Bernese will connect with you and your family in a way that defies description. It will bring much joy and satisfaction. It will also mean black fur in the butter dish and ice cubes, stains on the carpet where puppy had an accident or the adult dog got sick, a chewed rug-cabinet-prized antique chair leg...it's tough to be house proud when you own a Bernese. It will require a significant committment of your time and energy to train, socialize, and exercise the dog throughout the years...not just the first 6 months. Some dogs will develop chronic and painful diseases requiring ongoing treatment and limiting their ability to participate in activities. And finally, living with and loving a Bernese means suffering the eventual loss of the dog...sometimes sooner, sometimes later. Because the relationship they build with you is so deep... some people never heal from this loss and never get another Berner. So ask as many questions as come to mind and read the excellent information available on line. Websites for the BMDCA, Pat Long, Berner.org, IMBDC-Panda, are all loaded with factual and practical information. Then consider it all within the framework of the larger picture above and you'll be in a good position to make the right decision for you and your family. -Sherri Venditti
