----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Nick Arnett" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: "Killer Bs Discussion" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Tuesday, October 26, 2004 9:17 AM
Subject: Re: Br!n: On the Saudis



> Taking off my list manager hat... Are you saying that there are victims
> of David's criticism who have behaved better than he has, so if I ask
> for clarification from them, I should also ask him?

His "flair for the dramatic" can be very insulting.  I get by very easy
because I'm a Kerry voter who thinks that his comments on Bush are akin to
those of my dear departed aunt and uncle who were Birchers and convinced
that JFK and IKE were both closet communists. He has pretty well stated
that this is a bit rhetorical.   Standing a bit to the side, it is hard to
imagine statements that the ~50% of Americans who will vote for Bush are

1) Crooks
2) Throwbacks
3) Idiots

or combinations thereof as anything but inflammatory.  I feel that the
overwhelming majority of Bush supporters are patriotic Americans who happen
to be picking the greater of two evils this election.  I think that they
are mistaken.

I don't see how calling those that differ with you idiots is helpful in
maintain dialog.  I know as a fact, I  work extremely hard when I write to
push my dialog with David into a more fact filled area.  Even so, what I
write is called idiotic....but at least I am rewarded for my work with some
acknowledgment at the end that it was a bit over the top.  BTW, I took
Erik's comments on this to heart, when I posed an earlier question.

Having argued with alternate thinkers on sci.physics, I really don't mind
this: I find it an enjoyable challenge in many ways.  But, since my ox
isn't getting gored, this is a hill instead of a mountain for me to climb.
I find myself arguing someone I think is a bad president is simply a bad
president, not a traitor...so my stakes are more analytical than heart
felt.  (I'm roughly assigning odds of 10^-6 that GWB is actually a
traitor).

Also, David is an award winning writer.  He has the ability to be very
insulting without technically insulting someone.  If it were someone who
was not so good with words, I'd think that poor writing might be the source
of the problem.  But, I know skill when I see it; and I don't think the
overtones are accidental.  A quick example of this is, after Gautam said he
was a neocon, repeatedly insulting the neocons and then claim that he never
insulted Gautam.

Finally, Gautam is right in that I, at least, treat David differently than
I do any other list member.  After the incident around the time I responded
to his flame like I would respond to any other flame, I decided that I
needed to treat the name member of this list was to be differently than any
other member.  So, I bend over backwards to gently nudge instead of calling
him out.

Dan M.


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