Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar --- On Fri, 3/2/12, Greg McKenzie <greken...@gmail.com> wrote:
From: Greg McKenzie <greken...@gmail.com> Subject: Re: [Callers] Request about requests To: "Caller's discussion list" <call...@sharedweight.net> List-Post: callers@lists.sharedweight.net Date: Friday, March 2, 2012, 7:14 PM Chris Page wrote: > I'm curious -- how do you handle requests? > > That is, at an event when a dancer or an organizer comes up to the > stage and asks you to do a particular dance or type of dance? > This is fairly rare. It depends on a lot of things. I seldom alter my program beyond alternatives I have already chosen to adjust for the type of crowd. Here are some things I would consider: - I like to encourage feedback whenever possible so I try to be enthusiastic about hearing the person's concern or request. I do, however, try to interpret the feedback because most people are not clear on what it is, exactly, that they want or need and may not know how to express it. A request for a particular dance, for example, might be an expression of a desire for more variety, a need for simpler dances, a need for more clear and concise calling, or simply a need to feel that they have a connection with the caller and/or an influence in the community. - If there is time I try to probe for more information to find out what the real concern is. Perhaps they are an aspiring caller looking to open a dialog with an experienced caller, for example. Perhaps they would like to be invited to call a slot at the current or a future dance. - I try to follow-up by asking if they have any other concerns about what is happening at the dance that evening. This person is willing to engage and give you feedback. That is a valuable thing and I would try to "pick their brain" for any other ways I might improve my calling. - I would definitely get their name and introduce myself. I would try to write down their name and ask the manager or another organizer about them later. You might learn something of value. For example, you might find out that it would *not *be a good idea to invite them to call a dance slot. - Greg McKenzie _______________________________________________ Callers mailing list call...@sharedweight.net http://www.sharedweight.net/mailman/listinfo/callers
