No that's just bad parenting.

-----Original Message-----
From: BethF [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Monday, June 07, 2004 1:37 PM
To: CF-Community
Subject: Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

there is no premeditated malice when a 14 year old decides she isnt ready to
be a mother either.
  ----- Original Message -----
  From: John Stanley
  To: CF-Community
  Sent: Monday, June 07, 2004 8:53 AM
  Subject: RE: Conversation Topic - Abortion

  >>So the mother who aborts her pregnancy in order to save her life isnt'
  murdering her child then?

  The child still dies. But there is not premeditated malice. But then
again,
  another definition of murder is "To put an end to", which is what is
  happening in either case.

  -----Original Message-----
  From: BethF [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
  Sent: Monday, June 07, 2004 12:53 PM
  To: CF-Community
  Subject: Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

  So the mother who aborts her pregnancy in order to save her life isnt'
  murdering her child then?  just mothers whose birth control fails?
    ----- Original Message -----
    From: John Stanley
    To: CF-Community
    Sent: Monday, June 07, 2004 4:34 AM
    Subject: RE: Conversation Topic - Abortion

    >>If you don't have a better solution, then perhaps you should keep your
    extremeist view to yourself until you do.

    So only people who feel strongly about something and have a better
  solution
    to that problem are able to participate? That's nice to know. I thought
  this
    was a discussion list.

    >>Not everyone who has an abortion did so because they were
irresponsible.
    Birth control methods FAIL.

    Abortion shouldnt be used as birth control.

    >>One of the things I made very clear to my now-spouse is that if I were
  to
    get pregnant with a severely disabled child (possible certainly at my
  age!)
    or if the pregnancy were to threaten my life, I wouldn't have the child

    Already said I didnt have a problem with abortions for medical
  emergencies.

    -----Original Message-----
    From: BethF [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
    Sent: Sunday, June 06, 2004 2:34 PM
    To: CF-Community
    Subject: Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

    If you don't have a better solution, then perhaps you should keep your
    extremeist view to yourself until you do.  Not everyone who has an
  abortion
    did so because they were irresponsible.  Birth control methods FAIL.

    We are currently trying to have a kid.  One of the things I made very
  clear
    to my now-spouse is that if I were to get pregnant with a severely
  disabled
    child (possible certainly at my age!) or if the pregnancy were to
threaten
    my life, I wouldn't have the child.  It was hard for him to live with -
he
    has a disabled sister and is a lapsed catholic.  
      ----- Original Message -----
      From: John Stanley
      To: CF-Community
      Sent: Friday, June 04, 2004 11:03 AM
      Subject: RE: Conversation Topic - Abortion

      sorry I missed this post in the sea of responses.

      hmm....i dont know, am not a doctor, so i cant give a valid medical
      emergency. i think if the doctor sits down and tells the mother that
her
      life could be in danger if she continues the pregnancy, then that
should
    be
      enough information to make it an emergency. but then I am sure that
the
    same
      logic could be used to make the argument that pregnancy itself is a
    medical
      emergency because "n" number of women die during childbirth every
year.

      <rant>
      the thing that gets me about this is the people who are content to
screw
    and
      then have an abortion just because they feel they made the wrong
  decision.
      to me this smacks of the selfishness that is pervasive in todays
  society.
      people need to step up and be responsible. if you do something, be a
  g.d.
      adult about it and take responsibility. instead we legalize this
  horrific
      act, and sue mcdonalds because we got too fat, let our brat kids run
and
      scream in the stores, tailgate in our monster trucks, and dont really
  give
      two shits about how anyone else is doing.

      i talk to my grandparents on the phone quite often, and they are
amazed
  at
      the mentality of people today, about how much complaining there is for
      everything.

      the older I get the more sick of this crap I become.

      i dont have any solutions, which is a hell in itself.
      </rant>

      -----Original Message-----
      From: dana tierney [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
      Sent: Friday, June 04, 2004 1:25 PM
      To: CF-Community
      Subject: Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

      what's the definition of a medical emergency? That's the rub. I had
two
      pregnancies that each posed a serious risk to my health. I elected to
      continue them, and came away with no permanent consequences. But it
was
  my
      decision and had it been otherwise it would have been due to my
  decision.
      Makes all the difference in the world. I would be very much against
some
      panel telling women oh no, you have to continue this pregnancy because
  bla
      bla is not a serious enough risk to your health.

      Dana

      >My take: Women shouldnt be able to use it for birth control. It
should
  be
      >available for medical emergencies and that's it. It is my opinion
that
  we
      >shouldnt have laws that make it legal to murder our children. No
    religious
      >tenets here, just common sense.
      >
      >-----Original Message-----
      >From: Tangorre, Michael [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
      >Sent: Friday, June 04, 2004 10:59 AM
      >To: CF-Community
      >Subject: Conversation Topic - Abortion
      >
      >
      >What is everyone's take on abortion? I think this is a huge topic and
a
      >great conversation topic to get all kinds of opinions and views on...

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