Mostly, I think you'd have to have this incredibly amazing and solid
sense of self to not get jealous in a polyamorous relationship. Me?
Don't know if I could do it. But, I've also always said that I value
honesty more than monogamy. So, perhaps if I were with someone that
could truly be honest about it....

I just watched my folks do the dishonest thing for far too long, and I
have, at some level, this wondering about whether people are really
capable of lifelong monogamy. Course, I'm banking on the fact that
people can, since I'm married and all. :)

On Fri, 30 Jul 2004 16:17:37 -0400,  wrote:
> S. Isaac Dealey wrote:
> > Heh... I guess inhibitions will do that to a person... I'm happy with
> > my signficant others' clothes off anywhere they like... private,
> > public, whatever. :) Then again, I have no problem with my significant
> > others having other lovers either, so I guess that helps. :P
>
> *blinks*
>
> I never did understand polyamory on a gut level.  I can accept it in
> others (though not in my own SO -- I'm not that open minded), but I
> don't "get" it.
>
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