>> (male/female) not just sexually, but socially... and I've
>> never felt
>> as though someone I was with being with someone else was
>> a threat to
>> me (although I have envied them)... could they leave me?
>> yes. Will
>> they leave me because they find someone else "better"
>> than me? It's
>> possible, but then again they could leave of their own
>> accord at any
>> time for reasons entirely unrelated to their relationship
>> with me or
>> anyone else. Their life is their life and I cannot
>> control (or limit)
>> the risk of their leaving in any significant way... but
>> ultimately if
>> someone I love is happy, then I'm happy with them. :)
> I totally respect that, and some days I wish I felt the
> same way. But,
> as you said, it's just the way I'm wired. I guess that,
> since I'm
> uninterested in anything but monogamy on a personal level,
> I'm looking
> for someone who feels the same way.
> --Ben
Obviously. :) I no more want people who are mono-wired to be forced
into poly relatinships than I want to try and force myself into a mono
relationship... It's very much like (imo) the issue of gender
persuasion -- that is to say, you can pretend to be one way or the
other when you're not, but it's not easy or comfortable or likely to
last.
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