> (male/female) not just sexually, but socially... and I've never felt
> as though someone I was with being with someone else was a threat to
> me (although I have envied them)... could they leave me? yes. Will
> they leave me because they find someone else "better" than me? It's
> possible, but then again they could leave of their own accord at any
> time for reasons entirely unrelated to their relationship with me or
> anyone else. Their life is their life and I cannot control (or limit)
> the risk of their leaving in any significant way... but ultimately if
> someone I love is happy, then I'm happy with them. :)
I totally respect that, and some days I wish I felt the same way. But,
as you said, it's just the way I'm wired. I guess that, since I'm
uninterested in anything but monogamy on a personal level, I'm looking
for someone who feels the same way.
--Ben
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