Umm, Yeah I have.
My wife and I are essentially doing hospice work for her grandmother at this point. Her aunt is morbidly obese, and we have to do pretty much everything for her. My wife works nights and I work days so that one of us can almost always be here for the boys, especially with Finn's problems. Yeah it might make it a little easier and less expensive on child care, but the cost in our relationship, and the financial costs associated with the two extra people are way higher. Tim > -----Original Message----- > From: Dana [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Thursday, July 28, 2005 5:53 PM > To: CF-Community > Subject: Re: [QUARRANTINE]Re: bi-anxiety > > > yeah, but look at it this way, you've never had to figure out how to > buy a stamp while carry a sleeping six year old plus a sleeping four > year old. > > Maybe it's a matter of the grass looking greener. > > Dana > > On 7/28/05, loathe <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > My wife's Aunt and Grandmother both live with us, and we have > our two little > > boys. While there are times that it is nice, I personally > would have to say > > that it makes things much more chaotic and difficult to manage. > > > > I mean if it were just us and the kids we could afford a nice > little house > > or townhouse some place and I think just have a much better lifestyle. > > > > I would never ask them to leave or begrudge them anything. > Just trying to > > add a perspective of someone who is there right now. > > > > Tim > > > > > -----Original Message----- > > > From: Dana [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > > > Sent: Thursday, July 28, 2005 3:37 PM > > > To: CF-Community > > > Subject: Re: [QUARRANTINE]Re: bi-anxiety > > > > > > > > > yeah but Isaac, children are stuck with the parents they are born to. > > > Sometimes better is all there is. > > > > > > But maybe I missed something. What are you advocating exactly? > > > Something like the kibbutz model? > > > > > > Dana > > > > > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Protect Your PC from viruses, hackers, spam and more. Buy PC-cillin with Easy Installation & Support http://www.houseoffusion.com/banners/view.cfm?bannerid=61 Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:167154 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=11502.10531.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
