> children being raised by a community of adults. > I believe that the kibbutz is an example of > this. I am not aware of any particular > demonization of the form in the US, but I > haven't gone much beyond a room-mate or two.
There are a few exceptions, hence the "intentional communities movement", however, most people in our culture are so violently, abjectly averse to the idea of living with people (GASP!) that the response you get from "we're considering having a rommate move in" is "Why in the name of ALL THAT IS HOLY would you EVER consider doing something so monumentally stupid?! They'll fuck you over and you'll be sorry!" I've personally received this response more or less from more than one person. Others are okay with a roommate but continue to consider anything more than one or two roomates bizarre and perverse. Most people when you say "intentional communitie" or even "commune" respond with "you mean a cult? Like those people in waco?" Tell me that's not demonizing the situation. Then there are the pragmatic ways in which the culture either inadvertently or passive-aggressively makes extended-family or communal living more difficult. Local laws place restrictions on the number of people who are allowed to inhabit a dwelling -- and no builder in our country builds anything for more than 5, with 3 of them children, with ever-shrinking children's rooms (which in many places are roughly the size of a walk-in closet in new houses). The dwelling designed for more than 2-3 adults is simply not manufactured anymore, and yet, it's illegal to house more in the existing dwellings, which means if you want an extended family in our country, you have to be wealthy enough to build your own house. In some cases it's even illegal to build structures that are more ecologically conscious -- here in Florida it's perfectly possible to build a structure with passive air-flow that wouldn't require central air-conditioning... but it's illegal to live in it (I'm not certain, but I think it's illegal to build it now actually) because the design doesn't accomodate air-conditioning. s. isaac dealey 954.522.6080 new epoch : isn't it time for a change? add features without fixtures with the onTap open source framework http://www.fusiontap.com http://coldfusion.sys-con.com/author/4806Dealey.htm ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Find out how CFTicket can increase your company's customer support efficiency by 100% http://www.houseoffusion.com/banners/view.cfm?bannerid=49 Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:167135 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=11502.10531.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
