gf with no job and your bitching about money.
sounds like a led zepplin song to me dog..
tw
On 3/22/06, S. Isaac Dealey <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 3 kids, 1 ex and 1 girlfriend. And okay, yes, the girlfriend is my
> bag, and I support her 'cause she hasn't really worked in the 5 yrs
> since we've been together, but I don't believe it's my place to tell
> someone to get a job (and the only thing that accomplishes with my ex
> is it makes it harder for me to talk to my kids), and she helps me out
> by letting me get more work done instead of having to do laundry or
> dishes or cook for myself. :) It's not like either of us feel that's
> "her place", it's just a convenient arrangement and she's happy to
> help me get more hours toward my own goals.
>
> I've not hired a lawyer in the last 5 years because ::drum-roll::
> can't afford one. How am I supposed to afford a lawyer if I can't
> hardly pay the bills I already have? Beyond that I've met numerous
> divorced fathers who've spent thousands and thousands of dollars
> basically just throwing money down the toilet trying to find an
> attorney who either can or will do anything to help them with their
> divorce problems. I'm reasonably convinced that if there is such a
> person, he's too busy to accept me as a client even if I could afford
> his exhorbitant fees ('cause he'll definately be the most expensive
> attorney on this planet).
>
> Got me a vassectomy right after my ex and I split up... I keep it
> under my... well, you know where I keep it. :)
>
> As I've said, a number of stupid decisions made when I was a kid, like
> getting married to the wrong woman and not being adamant about waiting
> a while to have kids, both of which fed into how I fouled up my chance
> to have a degree.
>
> > Shit man, sounds like you need a better lawyer, not a
> > better job.
>
> > How many kids you got bro?
>
> > Maybe need to throw a vestictamy as well.
>
>
> > --
> > Tim Heald
> > [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> > 703-300-3911
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: S. Isaac Dealey [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> > Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006 1:10 PM
> > To: CF-Community
> > Subject: RE: frustrated...
>
> > You can, but I can't. The difference is that I support a
> > family of 6 with 2
> > separate living spaces (apartments in both cases) on a
> > single income. I
> > would LOVE for that to be a luxury, like the Mazerati I'm
> > not trying to get
> > myself into, and be able to just say "you know what, we
> > don't need 2 homes",
> > but people and laws prevent me from making that decision.
> > Or for that matter
> > from even reducing the cost of the 2nd living space any.
>
> >> I don't have a degree, and make significantly more than
> >> $80K right
> >> now.
>
> >> BTW I lived her eon $60K with two kids and a wife and two
> >> car
> >> payments.
> >> It's not as expensive as some people are making it out to
> >> be. I mean,
> >> you live in the burbs and ride a train, it isn't that
> >> bad. I just
> >> went to contract on a house here for 482,600. It's in
> >> Columbia MD, So
> >> it'll be a commute, compared to the rental we live in in
> >> Alexandria.
>
> >> --
> >> Tim Heald
> >> [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> >> 703-300-3911
> >> -----Original Message-----
> >> From: Scott Stewart [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> >> Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006 12:34 PM
> >> To: CF-Community
> >> Subject: RE: frustrated...
>
> >> Keep looking, I don't have a degree, and while I'm not
> >> making $80k I'm
> >> doing alright..
>
>
>
> >> Thanks
>
> >> Scott
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> >> -----Original Message-----
> >> From: S. Isaac Dealey [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> >> Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006 12:34 PM
> >> To: CF-Community
> >> Subject: RE: frustrated...
>
> >>> I'm telling you man, you need to move to DC. The
> >>> salaries are much
> >>> better than that, the killer is the housing costs
> >>> though.
>
> >> I'm talking to recruiters about jobs in DC.
>
> >> I was actually thinking about a company that I contacted
> >> directly because
> >> I'm personally interested in the company (not because I
> >> saw them post a job
> >> description), where the hiring manager told me not only
> >> that they don't hire
> >> people without degrees (with one exception), but that he
> >> didn't think my
> >> min. DC salary of $80k would be reasonable and that he'd
> >> be hard pressed to
> >> get me $70k for a full-time job. I can't live on less
> >> than
> >> $80k in DC! I've
> >> checked the market and done the math, and asside from the
> >> fact that I can't
> >> pay bills there for any less, $80k makes me a bargain in
> >> that market!
>
> >> Admittedly, it doesn't help that I still have 2+ hrs
> >> drive
> >> to get there and
> >> at the moment have no money for relocation. I didn't have
> >> any money for
> >> relocation when I came to Charlottesville, I got an
> >> advance, and then had to
> >> take a pay cut to work here, so you can imagine how much
> >> I've saved up to
> >> help me move from here to DC. But if they discount me for
> >> not having a
> >> degree, their not paying relocation becomes moot.
>
>
> >> s. isaac dealey 434.293.6201
> >> new epoch : isn't it time for a change?
>
> >> add features without fixtures with
> >> the onTap open source framework
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> >> http://www.fusiontap.com
> >> http://coldfusion.sys-con.com/author/4806Dealey.htm
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