i dont see it that way in the LEAST bit.
unless you have a 45 room mansion, cleaning takes 15-20 minutes a day, MAYBE.
a well kept house, even less.

cooking, takes minutes, laundry can be done while other things are being done.

she is straight up lazy, straight up.  im sorry but my wife and i have
5 animals, we own
two businesses, i work a full time job, and i have enough time on my
hands to play more golf than most people not on the pga tour.

laziness is a disease for which i know no cure. but it smells like
laziness to me.
i know she is hurt, or whatever, but i can think of 100 jobs off the
top of my head
that she could do to contribute.

seems like a storied history of bad decisions ike.  sorry.
tw

On 3/22/06, Scott Stewart <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> Nah,
>
> Sounds like the g/f is carrying her share by doing housework, cooking
> cleaning etc. This means SI has more time to work, and hunt for work.
>
> I'd love it if my house was clean and dinner was on the table when I got
> home. But the wife works so we do what, where and when we can.
>
> The ex on the other hand...
>
> Thanks
>
> Scott
>
> Scott A. Stewart
> Webmaster/ Developer
> GlobalNet Services, Inc
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> -----Original Message-----
> From: Tony [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006 2:46 PM
> To: CF-Community
> Subject: Re: frustrated...
>
> and not that i have any room to talk about your life, and
> your life decisions, but what the fuck.  she lives with you
> and doesnt pay any rent, nor does she foot the bill for shit.
>
> what the fuck. i dont care if its jessica simpson dog, get
> your ass out the fucking door and get a job.  back hurts? get
> medical attention, disability, something.
>
> dude, you are getting fucked all over the place, but i guess
> from what ive read in the past, you enjoy that kinda thing
>
> ;)
>
> On 3/22/06, Ray Champagne <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > I get visions of Alan from "Two and a Half Men" when I think of this
> > situation.  You have to struggle to live while neither of the women in
> > your life work - even from home, *anything*, and suckle your wallet-teat
> > dry every month.
> >
> > Man, you're getting fucked.  TWO GRAND a month?  Shit, as Chris Rock
> > says, "you might have to kill her!"
> >
> > Scott Stewart wrote:
> > > Ok,
> > >
> > > You really, really, really need to find a lawyer. She's screwing you
> four
> > > ways to Sunday. While you're obligated to support your kids. You are in
> no
> > > way shape or form obligated to support her. Unless in the divorce papers
> it
> > > explicitly says you must pay child support AND alimony.
> > >
> > > Even then, alimony isn't designed to completely support her.
> > >
> > > Take out a f'ing loan if you have to, with the money you'll save you can
> pay
> > > it off.
> > >
> > >
> > > Thanks
> > >
> > > Scott
> > >
> > > Scott A. Stewart
> > > Webmaster/ Developer
> > > GlobalNet Services, Inc
> > >
> > > http://www.gnsi.com
> > > 11820 Parklawn Dr
> > > Rockville, MD 20852
> > > Voice: (301) 770-9610 x 335
> > > Fax: (301) 770-9611
> > >
> > > The information contained in this message may be privileged,
> confidential,
> > > and protected from disclosure.  If the reader of this message is not the
> > > intended recipient, or any employee or agent responsible for delivering
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> > >
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > > From: S. Isaac Dealey [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> > > Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006 2:32 PM
> > > To: CF-Community
> > > Subject: RE: frustrated...
> > >
> > >> S.I.
> > >
> > >> Are you footing the bill for the ex's apartment and living
> > >> expenses also?
> > >
> > > Yep. $2k / mo. Have been for 5 years. That's why I'm $30k in arrears,
> > > because the job market's not been stable I've been in and out of jobs
> > > and I've not been able to find jobs that pay well enough.
> > >
> > >> Thanks
> > >
> > >> Scott
> > >
> > > Don't thank me. :)
> > >
> > > s. isaac dealey     434.293.6201
> > > new epoch : isn't it time for a change?
> > >
> > > add features without fixtures with
> > > the onTap open source framework
> > >
> > > http://www.fusiontap.com
> > > http://coldfusion.sys-con.com/author/4806Dealey.htm
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> >
> >
>
>
>
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