> Well, it's mostly the idea that if she says she's seeing someone that
you'd
> still send her flowers and ask again. That, and calling the next day to
ask
> for a second date. I'd generally expect someone to wait another day.

You had to be there.  She immediately went into how they were having
problems and how it might not last; this is what made me give her my card
and ask her to call me if her situation changed.  Then, being a proactive
man who was simultaneously perceptive of her signals and captivated by her
intelligence and stunning beauty, I immediately upped the ante a bit with
what turned out to be an apartment-covering arrangement of stargazer
lillies.  Even Georgia O'Keefe would have said "Damn!"

As far as calling the next day, we spent the last two hours of our first
date holding hands in a park swing and talking about everything including
seeing one another, which was an enthusiastic "yes" for both of us.  The
only reason why I waited until the following day was because I needed to
first stop floating in the air and letting those big red cartoon hearts
stream out of my chest.  That took time.

PS-- One year almost to the day of first meeting her, I proposed to her on
bended knee at this very same park bench, ring and all.  One more year
almost to the day after that we married.  We've been together now for twelve
years.

Respectfully,

Adam Phillip Churvis
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