> Well, it's mostly the idea that if she says she's seeing someone that you'd > still send her flowers and ask again. That, and calling the next day to ask > for a second date. I'd generally expect someone to wait another day.
You had to be there. She immediately went into how they were having problems and how it might not last; this is what made me give her my card and ask her to call me if her situation changed. Then, being a proactive man who was simultaneously perceptive of her signals and captivated by her intelligence and stunning beauty, I immediately upped the ante a bit with what turned out to be an apartment-covering arrangement of stargazer lillies. Even Georgia O'Keefe would have said "Damn!" As far as calling the next day, we spent the last two hours of our first date holding hands in a park swing and talking about everything including seeing one another, which was an enthusiastic "yes" for both of us. The only reason why I waited until the following day was because I needed to first stop floating in the air and letting those big red cartoon hearts stream out of my chest. That took time. PS-- One year almost to the day of first meeting her, I proposed to her on bended knee at this very same park bench, ring and all. One more year almost to the day after that we married. We've been together now for twelve years. Respectfully, Adam Phillip Churvis Member of Team Macromedia Advanced Intensive ColdFusion MX Training ColdFusion MX Master Class: September 22 - 26, 2003 http://www.ColdFusionTraining.com Download CommerceBlocks V2.1 and LoRCAT from http://www.ProductivityEnhancement.com The ColdFusion MX Bible is in bookstores now! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=t:5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 This list and all House of Fusion resources hosted by CFHosting.com. The place for dependable ColdFusion Hosting. http://www.cfhosting.com
