See, now that comes off as a different story. I asked some other "northern" gals around here about your first description of it and 2 came back with stalker and 2 said it was sweet.
Of course, one of those is my partner and my trick has always been to run up at them from behind, throw a gunny sack over them, and haul them back to my cave. So maybe she's biased. ;-) -Kevin ----- Original Message ----- From: "Adam Churvis" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Wednesday, September 17, 2003 10:06 AM Subject: Re: Needs some dating advice > > Well, it's mostly the idea that if she says she's seeing someone that > you'd > > still send her flowers and ask again. That, and calling the next day to > ask > > for a second date. I'd generally expect someone to wait another day. > > You had to be there. She immediately went into how they were having > problems and how it might not last; this is what made me give her my card > and ask her to call me if her situation changed. Then, being a proactive > man who was simultaneously perceptive of her signals and captivated by her > intelligence and stunning beauty, I immediately upped the ante a bit with > what turned out to be an apartment-covering arrangement of stargazer > lillies. Even Georgia O'Keefe would have said "Damn!" > > As far as calling the next day, we spent the last two hours of our first > date holding hands in a park swing and talking about everything including > seeing one another, which was an enthusiastic "yes" for both of us. The > only reason why I waited until the following day was because I needed to > first stop floating in the air and letting those big red cartoon hearts > stream out of my chest. That took time. > > PS-- One year almost to the day of first meeting her, I proposed to her on > bended knee at this very same park bench, ring and all. One more year > almost to the day after that we married. We've been together now for twelve > years. > > Respectfully, > > Adam Phillip Churvis > Member of Team Macromedia > > Advanced Intensive ColdFusion MX Training > ColdFusion MX Master Class: > September 22 - 26, 2003 > http://www.ColdFusionTraining.com > > Download CommerceBlocks V2.1 and LoRCAT from > http://www.ProductivityEnhancement.com > > The ColdFusion MX Bible is in bookstores now! > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~|<BR> [<A HREF="http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=t:4">Todays Threads</A>] [<A HREF="http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=t:4">This Message</A>] [<A HREF="http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=s:4">Subscription</A>] [<A HREF="http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=1.1.4">Fast Unsubscribe</A>] [<A HREF="http://www.houseoffusion.com/signin/">User Settings</A><P> <A HREF="http://www.fusionauthority.com/banners/view.cfm?bannerid=33" TARGET="_blank"><IMG align="center" SRC="http://www.fusionauthority.com/banners/CF_intro_468x60.gif" WIDTH="468" HEIGHT="60" ALT="" BORDER="0"></A>
