I don't want to be known as "the freaky guy that stalks girls he works with".
I guess maybe a walk by would be appropriate? Just say hi and then sink or swim. That is if I can find out where her office is with out stalking her. ;-) Phillip B. www.LoungeRoyale.com www.FillWorks.com ----- Original Message ----- From: "Deanna Schneider" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Tuesday, September 16, 2003 3:55 PM Subject: Re: Needs some dating advice > I'd run screaming in the opposite direction. No kidding. I mean, that's nice > and all Adam, but if you're not from down south, it has stalker written all > over it. I'd tone it down just a wee bit for us cynical northern gals. > > -d > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Adam Churvis" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Sent: Tuesday, September 16, 2003 3:19 PM > Subject: Re: Needs some dating advice > > > > Straightforward sincerity works on the very highest quality women. > > > > Do what I did: ask if you could talk with her for a moment, tell her that > > you are very attracted to her, and say you wondered if you might take her > to > > dinner to get to know each other better. > > > > If she is currently seeing someone but you sense that he isn't seriously > in > > her heart, smile kindly and say "you really got to me--I just had to ask," > > leave her your card and ask her to call you if her situation changes, and > > then go home. As soon as you walk through the door, immediately send her > a > > hernia-busting bouquet of stargazer lillies with an attached card that > reads > > "Then how about lunch?" and has your first name and phone number on the > > back. > > > > On your first date, ask her all about herself and what her hopes and > dreams > > are in life, ask about her parents, ask about her childhood, ask about her > > goldfish. Ask about what's important to her. Always be a proper > gentleman, > > take her hand in yours and say goodnight, telling her how much you enjoyed > > taking her out and getting to know more about her. Call her the next day > > and ask for the privilege of a second date. > > > > This may seem about a thousand years old, but it worked so well for me > that > > I recently celebrated my tenth anniversary (twelve years together). Life > is > > very short and you don't want to waste any time on someone you wouldn't > want > > to marry. > > > > Best of luck, my friend. :) > > > > Respectfully, > > > > Adam Phillip Churvis > > Member of Team Macromedia > > > > Advanced Intensive ColdFusion MX Training > > ColdFusion MX Master Class: > > September 22 - 26, 2003 > > http://www.ColdFusionTraining.com > > > > Download CommerceBlocks V2.1 and LoRCAT from > > http://www.ProductivityEnhancement.com > > > > The ColdFusion MX Bible is in bookstores now! > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: "Phillip B" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > Sent: Tuesday, September 16, 2003 2:39 PM > > Subject: Needs some dating advice > > > > > > > So there is this girl that works in the same building as me. I've met > her > > a > > > few times and shared some small talk. A woman I work with told her I had > a > > > thing for her when they had both been drinking. Ugh! Anyway, I really > want > > > to get to know her but I stink when it comes to asking women out. > > > > > > So does anyone have any suggestions as to how I could approach her? Did > I > > > mention that Ican be stupid shy? > > > > > > Phillip B. > > > > > > www.LoungeRoyale.com > > > www.FillWorks.com > > > > > > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=t:5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Get the mailserver that powers this list at http://www.coolfusion.com
