----- Original Message -----
From: Ben Doom
To: CF-Community
Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2003 10:19 AM
Subject: Re: I think I'm in trouble
If she freaked over a HDD or something, yeah. Cars, at least to me,
qualify as Major Decisions. While I can totally see myself doing
exactly what he did, I can also see her point. She's wondering if one
day he'll change jobs without mentioning it, or say "Oh, by the way. I
just bought a house."
Of course, I could be wrong. As the 2nd youngest known member of this
community, it's not like I've been there. :-)
--benD
BethF wrote:
> And if I were he, I would be concerned that she would try and
> micromanage my every decision after we were married.
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Ben Doom
> To: CF-Community
> Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2003 9:48 AM
> Subject: Re: I think I'm in trouble
>
> I would postulate that she was worried that he might make similar
> decisions *after* they were married. I'd bet that it was amplified
> quite a bit by the fact that he hadn't mentioned it, and she felt like
> she was being left out of important parts of his life.
>
> Not so much the car, but what the car represented.
>
> --benD
>
> BethF wrote:
>
> > Obviously, the amount of money wasnt' the issue for this woman since
> she
> > suddenly likes the car.
> >
> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: Deanna Schneider
> > To: CF-Community
> > Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2003 9:02 AM
> > Subject: Re: Re:I think I'm in trouble
> >
> > I think it affects her because she's his fiance, who he soon will
> live
> > with
> > and share all expenses with. And, unless he paid in full for the
> new car,
> > it's another bill that she'll be sharing. I think.
> > -d
> >
> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: "BethF" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2003 11:37 AM
> > Subject: Re: Re:I think I'm in trouble
> >
> > > How does this decision affect his girlfriend he doesn't live with?
>
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