I am a divorce attorney, so I see this type of stuff every day. Most of the time, I am the attorney for the guy and honestly, I have seen too many women use every tool at their disposal, including the kids, to hurt the man. If there is violance ect, I can understand the need to protect everyone, but in today's world, way too often, violence and sexual abuse are alleged just to get the upper hand. IT angers me. I was molested as a child (by a step parent) so I know it does happen, but in our days, if a kid said it, it was true!! Now days, kids and parents too often make false allegations, which makes it that much harder to believe the ones who are telling the truth.....the whole thing just makes me sick. To many men these days are deprived of their kids and too many kids miss out on having a daddy, because mommy saw the perfect opportunity to screw him over for the final time. Don't those people see that it is the kids who suffer?
Like I said, I am just so thankful my parents were not like that. MY mom remarried after her divorce. MY dad never did remarry. My dad passed away in 98 and mom was truly hurt by his passing even though they had been divorced for 20 plus years......As for my ex-step dad....when I finally told my mom what was going on, she left him in a heart beat and yes, she made sure the story was known.....but like I said...it was different then.... in our days, it was only alleged when it was true Marsha > Awesome! When My folks Divorced it was terrible; He got violent; hurt > Mom bad and she was awarded a Lifetime restraining order! He minded > himself after that. > My brother took his side over Mom and rarely talked to her; She was very > hurt. She died last year he never went to see her and I've only seen > him one time in 18 years! When Dad passed 7 years back I was Not > invited to the funeral. > Divorce is horrible! Henry and I opted never to Marry! We are best, > best > friends! > Much love and hugs to fur-babies and their families; From Mama Carole > and her > five Fur-babies! > > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > From: "[email protected]" <[email protected]> > To: [email protected] > Sent: Sat, July 31, 2010 4:27:24 PM > Subject: Re: {Disarmed} Re: [Chihuahuas] Growing old > > My parents divorced when I was only 4, so I never lived with Dad....I > personally had dogs all my life...dogs, rabbits, hamsters, birds, fish, > I've always been surrounded by animals :-) Daddy use to stop and get me > to go get an ice cream or go out to eat or something and he would always > act like he just HATED to do it, but would make a face and say something > like "you wanna take that old dog and go get an icecream?" > lol....Ruffles would jump in the back of the truck and off we would go > and ofcourse Daddy always bought him his own icecream too, lol. > > Those were such good days! Brings back memories....sighhh, why can't > divorced parents get along today? MY daddy stopped and got me anytime he > felt like it and mom never worried because she knew daddy would take > care of me. Too many kids today get caught in the middle of parent's > bitterness....I am so thankful my parents didn't do that to me! I had a > very close relationship with both my parents. > > > Marsha > >> *Marsha very touching story about your Dad...As a kid we were not >> allowed a dog..although my Dad had several of the spudz dog's ...But >> one day he broke down and we got the first family dog...Ike a perfect >> heinz 57 and one of the best... >> * >> On Sat, Jul 31, 2010 at 3:45 PM, <[email protected]> wrote: >> >>> >>> >>> what a touching story :-) My dad had dogs when he was a young boy, >>> but had never had one in my lifetime. He use to talk about how he >>> would like to have a collie. One day I saw a lady looking for a home >>> for two collies so I went and got them and gave one to my dad. He >>> LOVED that dog. Daddy was killed in a car wreck about a month after >>> he got the dog. He lived 3 days in the hospital before dying from his >>> injuries, but even there, he told everyone about his dog and was >>> worried to death that his dog would leave ect while he was in the >>> hospital. I had to come home and chain his dog up so he wouldn't >>> worry. He didn't get to have much time with his dog, but I thank the >>> good lord that he gave me the opportunity to provide that short month >>> of happiness to my dad :-) >>> Marsha >>> >>> > This really brought tears to my eyes. My Dad wore those soft grey >>> sweatshirts- mainly because they hid the hair of his >>> > beloved Dalmatian Ramses. That dog was his true love, best friend >>> and child. Those 2 were inseparable. I couldn't understand their >>> > relationship until I got Frida. Dalmatians are one owner dogs too. >>> Ramses tolerated anyone else besides my Dad. He would sit at the top >>> of >>> > the stairs when my Dad left and wait dedicatedly until he returned. >>> I would joke that Ramses ate better in college than I did. My Dad >>> would buy him his own hamburger when they went for lunch. I ate Ramen >>> Noodles. When he died a little piece of my Dad died. Thanks for >>> sharing this poem. >>> > >>> > Rylee and Frida >>> >>> This email contains correspondence from an attorney and may contain >>> privileged information. If you are not the intended receipient, >>> please delete. >>> >>> Do not tell god how big your storm is. Tell the storm how big your >>> God is. >>> >>> http://taylorstots.tripod.com/ >>> >>> >>> >> >> >> >> -- >> Joyce > > > > This email contains correspondence from an attorney and may contain > privileged information. If you are not the intended receipient, please > delete. > > Do not tell god how big your storm is. 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