I addressed this in my other email, but this is a good example. In this
case my back is providing 100lbf to your hands.

I also can't imagine being in this position and having centers of mass two
feet apart, but I would want to measure it before making this an argument,
hence going with your numbers.

On Wed, Mar 27, 2024, 13:15 Jeff Kaufman <[email protected]> wrote:

> Hi Chris,
>
> Thanks for reviewing the calculation!  Imagine that I hold you around your
> back with both hands, and you put your hands up in the air and enjoy the
> ride.  While I don't think we could get anywhere near 4.5x around in 12
> beats if you did that, do you agree that where my hands meet your back I'd
> need to provide both enough force for our combined weight?
>
> (I'm not claiming each person needs to provide ~200lb, but that this total
> force must be covered by the couple somehow)
>
> Jeff
>
> On Wed, Mar 27, 2024 at 12:56 PM Chris Lahey <[email protected]> wrote:
>
>> I think you're trying to calculate two 150lb dancers, but you've
>> calculated for a 300lb mass, but you shouldn't do that doubling. I'm
>> exerting enough force to provide your centripetal force and vice versa.
>> Those forces oppose one another, but they don't add up. That is a factor of
>> two error.
>>
>> I have to think more about one foot radius and 45 rpm and read upthread
>> more.
>>
>> On Wed, Mar 27, 2024, 12:25 Jeff Kaufman via Contra Callers <
>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>
>>> I was curious about John's "The shoulder-blade connection is purely to
>>> counteract centrifugal force.  That is not normally a lot of force, so it
>>> shouldn’t make you tired." above.  While ideally you could measure this, I
>>> don't think swinging with a scale between your hand and partner's back and
>>> your hand would be comfortable, and it would be hard to read.  Let's try a
>>> bit of physics.
>>>
>>> If you like to swing quickly you might go 4.5x around in twelve beats,
>>> which is 45rpm at a tempo of 120bpm. Let's guess the people each weigh
>>> 150lb and approximate them as point masses two feet apart. Doing some math:
>>>
>>> r = 1ft
>>> m = 300lb
>>> ω = 45rpm = 0.75 hz
>>>
>>> v = ω2πr
>>>   = 0.75 hz * 2π * 1ft
>>>   = 4.7 ft/s
>>>
>>> F = mv^2/r
>>>   = 300lbm * (4.7 ft/s)^2 / 1ft
>>>   = 300lbm * 23ft / s^2
>>>   = 6662lbm * ft / s^2
>>>
>>> 1lbf = 32.17 lbm * ft / s^2
>>> 1lbm = 0.0311 lbf * s^2 / ft
>>>
>>> F = 6662 lbm * ft / s^2
>>>   = 6662 * 0.0311 lbf
>>>   = 207lbf
>>>
>>> This says you need ~216lb of force to hold the dancers together! If
>>> you're rotating more slowly, perhaps 2.5x in twelve beats, it's still a
>>> significant 64lb.
>>>
>>> Jeff
>>>
>>> PS: If you want something you can play with, this is (rpm/3 * 3.14)**2 *
>>> weight * 1/32.2
>>>
>>> On Tue, Mar 26, 2024 at 11:08 PM Jeff Kaufman <[email protected]>
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>>> Here's a 1989 recording the Portland OR dance did in a recording
>>>> studio: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4o_qLQUH-7k .  I see almost
>>>> all "outer arms making a point, gent's right hand behind lady's back,
>>>> lady's left hand behind gent's shoulder" hold (hereafter 'ballroom' though
>>>> as illustrated above that's a fraught term).  At 0:58 and then again at
>>>> 1:28, 1:58, 3:02 etc there's a couple with a symmetrical hold where they
>>>> each have their right hand around the other's waist, with their left hands
>>>> joined low in the center.  I didn't watch the whole video, so it's possible
>>>> there were other couples that did other holds at some point?
>>>>
>>>> Here's 1987 in Mendocino: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pTOKMwrl-7Q
>>>> .  I only see ballroom holds.
>>>>
>>>> Here's 1986 in Cambridge MA:
>>>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n2-pBs9BY3Q . Outdoor demo
>>>> performance.  Almost all ballroom holds, but at 4:04 the couple all the way
>>>> on the right has outer hands in a forearm hold (which they continue doing
>>>> in later iterations of the dance).
>>>>
>>>> Here's 1986 in Francestown NH:
>>>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O09f-3yGMuE  At 0:30 I see two
>>>> ballroom holds and two where the outer arms are holding a bit above the
>>>> elbows.  At 1:06 I see two ballroom holds, one of the hold from 0:30, and
>>>> one of the symmetrical holds I described in the Portland OR video, though
>>>> note that this is many of the same couples.  Jumping ahead to 8:38 I see
>>>> three ballroom holds and where the outer hands hold each other's forearms.
>>>> Separately, I really like how enthusiastic the balances are: you can feel
>>>> the room shake through to the camera!
>>>>
>>>> Here's one labeled 1986 Chico Contra:
>>>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UCYAyEj6jWg  Almost all ballroom
>>>> holds, except for one couple where the lady's left hand is on the back of
>>>> the gent's right arm instead of behind his shoulder (doesn't look
>>>> comfortable to me!)
>>>>
>>>> Here's 1976 in Bloomington: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_n2A3955G2w
>>>> .  Looks like a performance.  At 0:10 I see three couples where the outer
>>>> hands are joined as in ballroom, the gent's right hand is around the lady's
>>>> waist, and the lady's left hand is again on the back of the gent's right
>>>> arm.  Then there's one couple doing the symmetrical swing with left hands
>>>> joined low between their bodies. Same again at 0:44, 1:11, etc.
>>>>
>>>> Here's 1967 somewhere in New England:
>>>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q6E1AtqyvFM .  I see ballroom at 0:35,
>>>> 0:37, 3:15, 3:16, 5:08, 5:10.  Then at 1:05 (and then again in the
>>>> background at 5:11, and then again at 5:23 and 5:33) I see a forearm hold
>>>> with arms that are straighter than I'm used to.  At 2:08 I see a hold where
>>>> the gents hands are both around the lady's waist and the lady's hands are
>>>> both over the tops of the gent's shoulders.
>>>>
>>>> Here's 1981 in Belmont MA, but it's an hour and I'm going to bed:
>>>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fdTVkWcehZo
>>>>
>>>> Jeff
>>>>
>>>> On Tue, Mar 26, 2024 at 4:33 PM Stein, Robert <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> The 1964 film with Dudley Kaufman calling also shows the same variety
>>>>> of swinging styles from ballroom to various barrel holds.
>>>>> Bob
>>>>>
>>>>> > On Mar 26, 2024, at 16:13, Jeff Kaufman via Contra Callers <
>>>>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Looking through old media to figure out what swing positions were
>>>>> common sounds like fun!  I think video might be more promising?  Here's a
>>>>> few annotations of a video, where the numbers are timestamps and each
>>>>> bullet describes the couple that's in the middle of the frame at the
>>>>> timestamp.  I only counted each couple once:
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Cambridge MA, 1990: https://youtu.be/dC0qQYWjdh0?si=JWkNH0g93yo6VWrC
>>>>> > * 3:41: lady's hands behind gent's arms, gent's right hand behind
>>>>> lady's back, gent's left hand behind lady's arm
>>>>> > * 4:12: outer arms making a point, gent's right hand behind lady's
>>>>> back, lady's left hand behind gent's shoulder
>>>>> > * 4:14: outer arms making a point, lady's left hand on gent's
>>>>> shoulder, gent's right hand on lady's back
>>>>> > * 4:44: outer arms making a point held way out, lady's left hand
>>>>> behind gent's shoulder, gent's right hand on lady's back
>>>>> > * 5:16: outer arms overlapping, inner hands on backs with lady above
>>>>> gent
>>>>> > * 5:17: outer arms making a point held low, gent's inner hand on
>>>>> lady's back, lady's inner hand behind gent's shoulder
>>>>> > * 5:18: outer arms making a point and held out, gent's inner hand on
>>>>> lady's back, lady's inner hand behind gent's arm
>>>>> > * 5:48: both lady's hands behind gent's shoulders, gent's left hand
>>>>> behind lady's elbow, gent's right hand behind lady's back
>>>>> > * 5:49: outer arms making a point, gent's right hand behind lady's
>>>>> back, lady's left hand behind gent's shoulder
>>>>> > * 5:50: outer arms making a point, gent's right hand behind lady's
>>>>> back, lady's left hand behind gent's shoulder
>>>>> >
>>>>> > The "outer arms making a point, gent's right hand behind lady's
>>>>> back, lady's left hand behind gent's shoulder" hold, which I think of as
>>>>> the standard today, was about half of them, but there was quite a lot of
>>>>> variation.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > I tried to do this with a Fitzwilliam 1975 clip, but there were too
>>>>> many cuts.  The 1964 video would be another one to try?
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Jeff
>>>>> >
>>>>> > On Tue, Mar 26, 2024 at 3:33 PM Julian Blechner via Contra Callers <
>>>>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>>>> > Responding to various points.
>>>>> > And, obligatory acknowledgement that there's always regional
>>>>> differences (and, perhaps ultimately that is what this thread is really
>>>>> about?)
>>>>> > I beg you forgive me for directness, and please assume a friendly
>>>>> tone and desire for friendly discussion, as that's what's intended.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > I just thumbed through two big choreo milestone books marking
>>>>> approximately the beginning of the less-1s&2s age of contra - Balance and
>>>>> Swing, and Zesty Contras - and absolutely Ted Sanella and Larry Jennings.
>>>>> > The short version: despite being contemporaries and the books
>>>>> published a year apart (1982 and 1983), they describe slightly different
>>>>> swing holds, where:
>>>>> > - a gent's right hand is either on the waist on the small of the
>>>>> back (Sanella) or a little higher (Jennings, via the illustration on the
>>>>> cover which he points out in the description is what to follow)
>>>>> > - a gent's left hand is either a typical ballroom palm-up supporting
>>>>> the lady's right hand (Sanella) or behind the lady's right upper arm
>>>>> (Jennings, with Sanella noting the variation as well) - with a lady's 
>>>>> hands
>>>>> > - a lady's left hand is resting on the top of the upper arm
>>>>> (Jennings) or "behind the upper arm" (Sanella)
>>>>> >
>>>>> > So even in 1982/1983, there was no agreed traditional swing
>>>>> position, and holds described by both did include women holding men in 
>>>>> ways
>>>>> that were supporting from behind rather than everyone agreeing that their
>>>>> hand is "resting on top" as with other couples' dances.
>>>>> > Obviously dance evolves over time, and I'll circle back around to
>>>>> that after I touch on some specific points:
>>>>> >
>>>>> > RE: Joe: "They lean back or sideways or press back against the
>>>>> Leftie’s supporting right hand."
>>>>> > Agree, these are bad habits. The "leaning back" may be describing
>>>>> "the feeling of centripetal force", but also I have definitely experienced
>>>>> people who lean back.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > RE: Neal: "both-palms-flat swing  ...  forces the swing together
>>>>> because you are limited to the length of the shorter arm."
>>>>> > I don't think this is accurate.
>>>>> > This was covered elsewhere in the thread. The shoulderblade isn't
>>>>> small, and adjustments can be made to adjust for height or size
>>>>> differences. There's always exceptions, sure.
>>>>> > Certainly, when I swing young kids, we're not doing shoulderblades.
>>>>> Then again, they have a lot less mass than an adult, so there's less
>>>>> support that's needed to be given.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > RE: Neal: " putting your palm in the middle of my back means you’re
>>>>> going to be on top of me."
>>>>> > I agree, however, a good flat-palms swing hold is not in the
>>>>> "middle" of the back. There's a gap between shoulderblades, so a hand in
>>>>> the middle is partially off the shoulderblade.
>>>>> > I like how Lisa Greenleaf describes it as the curve of the hand
>>>>> often can naturally curve around the shoulderblade.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > RE: Neal: " if partners are the same height/arm length then the arms
>>>>> are coming in at the same point and going to the same point, resulting in
>>>>> collision. SOMEONE has to adjust up or down AND forward."
>>>>> > I mean, I suppose, technically speaking? But I think everyone on
>>>>> this list here has been dancing for years, and "elbow collisions" isn't a
>>>>> thing I've really experienced or heard discussed.
>>>>> > So, I conclude that this may in theory be possible, but people just
>>>>> ... do it?
>>>>> > As a lark/lefthand role, my right arm comes into a swing from a bit
>>>>> of an under-scooping motion. As a robin/righthand role, my left arm comes
>>>>> in more open and I wait half a moment to let the lark engage their right
>>>>> arm before I try and wrap my right arm around.
>>>>> > It's similar-ish to the anticipation leading into a good connection
>>>>> on a star promenade.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Further to this point, if I were using the traditional "woman left
>>>>> arm rests on top", I'd have to wait until the lark's arm has engaged,
>>>>> anyway.
>>>>> > Which means that traditionally, women have done that extra bit of
>>>>> work in the dance of that waiting, reading the other dancer's movement, 
>>>>> and
>>>>> timing their own move --- and I wonder how much of that had gone 
>>>>> unnoticed.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > This all said, the explanation that you give, Neal, may not work as
>>>>> wellwhen it's not taller men dancing with shorter women.
>>>>> > Some women are tall and dance the Robin/Righthand role.
>>>>> > Some men are tall and dance the Robin/Righthand role.
>>>>> > Some women are shorter and dance the Lark/Lefthand role.
>>>>> > Some men are shorter and dance the Lark/Lefthand role.
>>>>> > Some men dance with men, some women with women.
>>>>> > Etc.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > So dancing requires a need to adjust our arms to "make a swing work
>>>>> for both people" as a universal and generic skill.
>>>>> > Thankfully, I think it's one that's actually more automatic than it
>>>>> may seem!
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Regardless of how we discuss the technical and kinesthetic aspects
>>>>> of contra, I teach (and I think most callers teach) that dancers need to
>>>>> adjust themselves to every partner and neighbor, and find a happy medium
>>>>> that works for both people.
>>>>> > If someone doesn't want to put their hand flat on my shoulderblade,
>>>>> that's fine and I'll adjust by limiting my upper-end swing speed.
>>>>> > I think we all share the value that a skilled contra dancer can
>>>>> adjust their style to meet another dancer's differences in size, height,
>>>>> ability, tiredness, injury, age, etc.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > In dance,
>>>>> > Julian Blechner
>>>>> >
>>>>> >
>>>>> > On Tue, Mar 26, 2024 at 11:28 AM Neal Schlein <[email protected]>
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>> > Hi Julian,
>>>>> > Regarding both dancers trying to put their palm flat on the other
>>>>> persons back, I agree with Joe.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > The both-palms-flat swing does multiple things.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > First, it forces the swing together because you are limited to the
>>>>> length of the shorter arm. I’m six feet tall with broad shoulders and long
>>>>> arms—putting your palm in the middle of my back means you’re going to be 
>>>>> on
>>>>> top of me. I don’t care who I’m dancing with—I want space, and I’m not OK
>>>>> with that.  With a standard hold, I can give partners lots of space.
>>>>>  (Also, I sweat from the head a lot. You want that space, and no one wants
>>>>> their hand on my back.)
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Second, if partners are the same height/arm length then the arms are
>>>>> coming in at the same point and going to the same point, resulting in
>>>>> collision. SOMEONE has to adjust up or down AND forward. This means a
>>>>> changed angle for one person, and due to the change in angle a shortening
>>>>> of the hold to match the arm that adjusted (usually on top), thereby
>>>>> pulling the swing closer together than otherwise necessary…which also puts
>>>>> the other person’s arm (typically lark, and also typically longer) in a
>>>>> non-natural position, which is likely to be physically uncomfortable and
>>>>> potentially harmful.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Neal Schlein
>>>>> > Librarian, MSLIS
>>>>> >
>>>>> >
>>>>> > On Sun, Mar 24, 2024 at 1:24 PM Julian Blechner via Contra Callers <
>>>>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>>>> > Hi Joe,
>>>>> >
>>>>> > You mean, palms flat on the back of shoulderblades? If so, it's how
>>>>> I teach it, lots of callers teach it, and this is the first I've heard a
>>>>> complaint about it.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > That said, you describe: "I've had my elbow bent backward by eager
>>>>> robins pressing my elbow in to get their elbow in the right place."
>>>>> >
>>>>> > That _sounds like_ what I call "arm clamping". While yes, putting
>>>>> Robin's hand on the outside of the shoulder also alleviates the clamping,
>>>>> it's not the only way to fix it. A Robin can lift their elbow. (I just
>>>>> workshopped the issue with my partner in the living room to test a variety
>>>>> of height and holds out to confirm what you were saying, as well.)
>>>>> >
>>>>> > The other issue is that if both dancers don't have hands flat on the
>>>>> backs of each other, it's more difficult to maintain an open frame when
>>>>> swinging. One usually winds up _closer_ when hands are resting on
>>>>> shoulders, unless one dancer is significantly stronger and the other is
>>>>> fairly petite.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > I know that my right arm will get seriously fatigued and sore if I
>>>>> have an evening too many times as Lark with Robins providing insufficient
>>>>> support. And I've heard plenty of dancers say similar.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > That said, all bodies are different. If yours works where the swing
>>>>> hold works better for you the way you describe, that is what it is, yeah?
>>>>> But I might recommend considering workshopping swings further, because 
>>>>> what
>>>>> you're requesting is counter to prevailing teaching. If I understand
>>>>> correctly (and it's always possible I'm missing something.)
>>>>> >
>>>>> > In dance,
>>>>> > Julian Blechner
>>>>> >
>>>>> >
>>>>> > On Sun, Mar 24, 2024, 1:13 PM Joe Harrington <
>>>>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>>>> > Not the standard ballroom, with the robin's arm on top of the
>>>>> lark's, but an alternative that I've seen occasionally, but for a number 
>>>>> of
>>>>> years now, where the robin tries to put their left hand in the same
>>>>> location on the lark's back as the lark has their right hand on the 
>>>>> robin's
>>>>> back.  I know at least one prominent caller who teaches this hold in their
>>>>> newbie workshop and tells their dancers that both sides need to do this to
>>>>> provide equal support in the swing.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > While I like the principle, the practice can hurt. If the dancers
>>>>> are not grossly mismatched in size/arm length, it won't be possible to do
>>>>> this without their elbows occupying the same space.  I've had my elbow 
>>>>> bent
>>>>> backward by eager robins pressing my elbow in to get their elbow in the
>>>>> right place.  Even if it doesn't go all the way to pain, it pretty much
>>>>> eliminates my ability to provide any support, unless I "fight back" by
>>>>> pushing my elbow out and resisting the inward pressure, essentially
>>>>> refusing the position.  I'm also focusing entirely on protecting my elbow,
>>>>> so it kills any enjoyment in that swing.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Please gently discourage this hold.  If a robin wants to give major
>>>>> support in a swing, the symmetric swing holds, the barrel, the one Jeff
>>>>> described, or even a mirror of the ballroom where the lark's arm is on top
>>>>> are much better opportunities.  A robin whose arm is longer than their
>>>>> lark's arm can also reach over or around the shoulder in a ballroom hold
>>>>> (robin's arm on top) to add support.  Just don't push down on the 
>>>>> shoulder.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > --jh--
>>>>> >
>>>>> >
>>>>> > On Fri, Mar 22, 2024 at 9:21 AM Julian Blechner <
>>>>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>>>> > JJ,
>>>>> >
>>>>> > I like your point about the sort of code-switching that the
>>>>> asymmetry of a ballroom hold provides to reinforce what role one is 
>>>>> dancing.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Joe,
>>>>> >
>>>>> > I don't understand what you mean about the ballroom hold having
>>>>> elbows occupy the same space. I think I'd need to see it (in person or
>>>>> picture). That said, it raises the broader issue, which is the overall
>>>>> topic, that everyone has different physical needs and finding happy 
>>>>> mediums
>>>>> is our goal for everyone dancing together. Your issue with ballroom hold
>>>>> handholds as such is a good reminder for me that no one - not even 
>>>>> seasoned
>>>>> callers - can anticipate every need or difference.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > In dance,
>>>>> > Julian Blechner
>>>>> >
>>>>> > On Thu, Mar 21, 2024, 10:38 PM JJ <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>>> > Personally for me, the standard ballroom swing helps me to "flip the
>>>>> switch" in the brain on which side of the swing I'm "supposed to" end on
>>>>> (assuming we're not switching roles back and forth for fun lol). If my 
>>>>> left
>>>>> arm is the "pointy arm," I'm ending on the left; if my right arm is the
>>>>> "pointy arm," I'm ending on the right. I don't have to consciously tell
>>>>> myself "I'm the Lark" or "I'm the Robin," my muscle memory just takes over
>>>>> and I just end on whichever side my arm position tells me to 😅.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > I enjoy neutral swings, but if we're not planning on switching roles
>>>>> without warning through an individual dance, I tend to stick with the
>>>>> traditional ballroom figure.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > On Thu, Mar 21, 2024, 22:33 Jeff Kaufman via Contra Callers <
>>>>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>>>> > "At the time, it almost never happened that the one in the lady's
>>>>> role actually swung like a lady.  I'm not sure when that became the norm."
>>>>> >
>>>>> > When I started dancing both roles, around 2005, I remember initially
>>>>> doing it as you said, with gender-neutral swings with the gents I
>>>>> encountered.  I remember being surprised sometime around 2006-2007 when I
>>>>> ran into a few guys dancing switch who indicated they wanted to do the
>>>>> standard ballroom hold.  By 2008-2009 I think my male friends and I were
>>>>> dancing the lady's role in the standard way?
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Jeff
>>>>> >
>>>>> > On Thu, Mar 21, 2024 at 10:16 PM Joe Harrington via Contra Callers <
>>>>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>>>> > I love the barrel hold, but some of my partners have reacted in a
>>>>> way that indicated it was too intimate for them.  This is especially true
>>>>> if I have to lean over to do it, as that puts my face pretty close to
>>>>> theirs (I'm pretty tall).  It's also difficult to do without frontal
>>>>> contact if one or both partners is well on the heavy side.  But, all that
>>>>> aside, if you and your partner like fast swings, it's a great hold, more
>>>>> stable than ballroom, with four arms providing support rather than one.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > In the late 1980s and early 1990s, when guys danced the lady's role
>>>>> (using the terminology of the time for reasons you'll see in a moment),
>>>>> we'd almost universally be offered the "gender-neutral swing", which is
>>>>> symmetrical and very stable for fast swinging: both right arms are around
>>>>> the other's back and both left arms go over/around the other's right arm,
>>>>> bend 90 degrees at the elbow, pass between you, and clasp left hands 
>>>>> around
>>>>> each other's forearms between your bodies.  At the time, it almost never
>>>>> happened that the one in the lady's role actually swung like a lady.  I'm
>>>>> not sure when that became the norm.  I would occasionally do it with a
>>>>> particular guy partner whom I liked to dance with.  We practiced it first
>>>>> and then did it with each other, but we gender-neutral-swung our
>>>>> neighbors.  We got some pretty surprised looks from our neighbors when we
>>>>> swung each other. At least one guy asked me if that partner and I were an
>>>>> item.  Times and role terms and what people read into dance behavior
>>>>> change...
>>>>> >
>>>>> > In general, I'm quite happy to swing with guys in either role when
>>>>> they're happy to swing with me.  But, it's awkward and uncomfortable in 
>>>>> the
>>>>> extreme to be going up an entire line of consecutive frowns, growls, and
>>>>> looks of disgust as a guy dancing the robbin...enough that I haven't
>>>>> returned to the dance weekend where that happened in Fall 2022, even 
>>>>> though
>>>>> it was pretty great in other ways.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > The one swing style I really dislike is a modified ballroom position
>>>>> where the robbin tries to put their hand on the lark's back in the same
>>>>> place where the lark's hand is on theirs.  I know some people actually
>>>>> teach it this way, I guess as some kind of equality thing.  It's terrible,
>>>>> because their elbow and the lark's elbow then have to occupy the same
>>>>> space, which, well, physics.  If I'm the lark and their arm is outside
>>>>> mine, when they try to provide support, it hyperextends my right elbow,
>>>>> eliminating any chance I can provide support and sometimes inducing pain
>>>>> before I can either force my elbow back out, displacing their hand from my
>>>>> back, or pull my arm up to rest it on their arm in a mirror of the
>>>>> traditional ballroom hold.  I hope we can convince everyone to stop
>>>>> teaching this hold, as it usually doesn't work as intended and it can hurt
>>>>> the lark.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > One assist that does work in ballroom position and requires no
>>>>> communication is, if the robbin's arm is as long as or longer than the
>>>>> lark's, they rest their left arm on the lark's right, extending the entire
>>>>> length of the arm and then reaching around/over the lark's shoulder to
>>>>> provide some support on the shoulder blade.  In my case, at least, if they
>>>>> are short enough that they can't do this, then they're often also light
>>>>> enough that additional support isn't critical, though it does make for 
>>>>> more
>>>>> connection.  It's important not to press down on the shoulder, though. 
>>>>> Only
>>>>> pull forward.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > --jh--
>>>>> >
>>>>> >
>>>>> > On Thu, Mar 21, 2024 at 12:52 PM Julian Blechner via Contra Callers <
>>>>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>>>> > At the last couple of dances in the last few days, I thought about
>>>>> this email thread and observations.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Short and simple:
>>>>> > A "barrel hold" swing:
>>>>> > - Seemed to provide a little bit more space than a ballroom hold
>>>>> > - One neighbor offered it (by chance) really clearly, as a lark,
>>>>> with his left arm curved into a sort of "offer a hug" type position. As we
>>>>> engaged in the swing hold, he placed his left arm in place, and it guided
>>>>> things in. It worked pretty well for me, at least as an experienced 
>>>>> dancer.
>>>>> >
>>>>> > In dance,
>>>>> > -Julian Blechner
>>>>> >
>>>>> > On Sat, Mar 16, 2024 at 4:18 PM becky.liddle--- via Contra Callers <
>>>>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>>>> > I can’t answer whether the robin's would always HAVE to go above the
>>>>> lark’s in the modified ballroom swing, but I would intuitively think that
>>>>> having that rule/understanding might make it easier for dancers to make 
>>>>> the
>>>>> transition from ballroom to modified ballroom because the robin’s arm is
>>>>> always on top in standard ballroom swing. Also, the lark’s hand is
>>>>> typically cupped upwards with the robin’s hand above the lark’s in things
>>>>> like a balance or even a handhold in a circle move, so having the hand/arm
>>>>> orientations the same in the swing would also seem more intuitive to me if
>>>>> I were just learning this swing.
>>>>> > Becky
>>>>> >
>>>>> >> On Mar 16, 2024, at 12:25 PM, Katherine Kitching via Contra Callers
>>>>> <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>>> >>
>>>>> >> Hi John, thanks for all your comments. I like this swing at
>>>>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FUiXStkCHGs from 0:05 to 0:15 - for
>>>>> spacing -- and I'm going to introduce it at our next dance!  Though what I
>>>>> think Becky found interesting about the variation we're working on is that
>>>>> it retains the "pointy hands", which can be useful.
>>>>> >>
>>>>> >> The one thing that I was confused about when I read your message:
>>>>> you say when you tried the swing variation our group has been 
>>>>> experimenting
>>>>> with (visual at
>>>>> https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/ebotfe2jksbr3dqbjyiuf/Modified-Ballroom-Swing-elbow-hold.jpg?rlkey=ekblzvpc2tk2hkbtfrh9u96au&dl=0
>>>>> )
>>>>> >> -- you say that you found the grip insufficient, for the arms that
>>>>> are holding just above the elbow.
>>>>> >>
>>>>> >> But in my mind, this hold that me and my partner are doing with his
>>>>> left hand my right hand ,  is supposed to be the same as the hold you use
>>>>> in this video of yours - (but in your case, your left hand and her right
>>>>> hand.)
>>>>> >> Maybe I didn't execute it properly, but it is what I intended:
>>>>> >> https://youtu.be/yUbi1B2Edk0?si=HL-3jgI95LtGZBQ_&t=198
>>>>> >> Starts at 3:18.
>>>>> >> Thoughts?
>>>>> >>
>>>>> >> Also, is anyone able to answer my question to Winston -
>>>>> >>
>>>>> >> Is it a given, due to something in the asymmetric nature of the
>>>>> hold, that in this video referenced by Allan -
>>>>> >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQ0R5iHT-l8 or in the photo I
>>>>> shared above via Dropbox, that the Robin's arm will *always* go above the
>>>>> Lark's arm?
>>>>> >>
>>>>> >> Or could the placement of the arms vary depending on the relative
>>>>> height of the two dancing partners?
>>>>> >> (for example with a 6' tall Lark and a 5' tall Robin, would the
>>>>> Robin's arm still be above the Lark's?
>>>>> >>
>>>>> >> Thanks all!
>>>>> >> Kat K in Halifax
>>>>> >>> John Sweeney via Contra Callers
>>>>> >>> Thursday, March 14, 2024 7:23 AM
>>>>> >>> Hi Kat,
>>>>> >>> Yes, I thought you meant something like you show in your photo.
>>>>> When you mentioned Jeff's photo I did wonder, as it is what I call a
>>>>> Foreshortened Hold in my video and brings you closer together rather than
>>>>> further apart.
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> I picked up the Foreshortened Hold from the cover of Zesty Contras
>>>>> and love it. I was surprised when I analysed the 600 dancers at a contra
>>>>> dance at The Flurry and realised that nobody else was using it!
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> We tried your Modified Ballroom Hold Swing and didn't feel that it
>>>>> really worked. With my right arm underneath there didn't seem to be enough
>>>>> connection to have a really good swing unless Karen gripped my arm. I felt
>>>>> that my hand might slide down. With my right arm on top Karen felt that it
>>>>> was pulling on her shoulder even though I wasn't gripping - it was just
>>>>> awkward. So, sorry, but I won't be using that one.
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> Re all the references to sore arms/hands/wrists/etc. The biggest
>>>>> problem is that people are told to "give weight". I don't want your 
>>>>> weight!
>>>>> People misunderstand and lean back or sideways. If people control their 
>>>>> own
>>>>> weight then all the connection has to do is counter centrifugal force and
>>>>> that it not a lot inless you spin really fast.
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> I always start a Swing lesson by getting the dancers to Buzz on
>>>>> the spot BY THEMSELVES. Then when they connect they keep their own balance
>>>>> and weight.
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> I have had major operations on both my shoulders (too much
>>>>> Repetitive Strain Injury from another style of dance that is taught badly,
>>>>> and then lots of Aerials:
>>>>> https://youtu.be/CJnL_Y63AnY?si=RqKHSw5MQmhiuIFT - maybe I shouldn't
>>>>> have started doing those in my fifties!). Anyway, I can't afford to let
>>>>> people damage my shoulders. With a good partner I can Swing at high speeds
>>>>> with no problem. Whenever someone leans back or sideways I just slow the
>>>>> Swing down and lessen my connection so that they have to take their own
>>>>> weight or fall over.
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> Anyway, if you can get everyone to keep their own weight you will
>>>>> find it is much less strain on your arm/hand/wrist.
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> The standard Quebecois Swing has the feet interleaved. They seem
>>>>> to do it without any problem. It is just a different feel and takes some
>>>>> getting used to.
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> Someone mentioned the challenges with being too close in a Ceilidh
>>>>> Swing (http://contrafusion.co.uk/SwingWorkshop.html#Ceilidh ) - you
>>>>> could always try the Forearm Swing instead (
>>>>> http://contrafusion.co.uk/SwingWorkshop.html#Linked ) - same
>>>>> principle, but further apart so no bodily contact.
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> Happy dancing,
>>>>> >>> John
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> John Sweeney, Dancer, England [email protected] 01233 625 362 &
>>>>> 07802 940 574
>>>>> >>> http://www.contrafusion.co.uk for Dancing in Kent
>>>>> >>>
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>>>>> >>> becky.liddle--- via Contra Callers
>>>>> >>> Wednesday, March 13, 2024 10:20 PM
>>>>> >>> For me, the enforced intimacy is about the proximity of bodies and
>>>>> lack of physical air space between them. The huge difference between a
>>>>> swing in contra vs., say, agreeing to dance a waltz or a swing dance with
>>>>> someone, is that by agreeing to dance you’re agreeing to swing with EVERY
>>>>> opposite-role person in the line, not just the person you asked to dance.
>>>>> That’s a much bigger commitment to physical contact/intimacy than saying
>>>>> yes to one person.
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> As a side note, before we got rid of a lecherous dancer in our
>>>>> group a few years ago, MANY women in our dance group chose their contra
>>>>> dance line specifically to avoid having to swing with him. The most
>>>>> important intervention was, of course, to establish a code of conduct 
>>>>> which
>>>>> we used to remove him from the dance group (when it became clear he would
>>>>> not agree to change his behaviour). But for women (and others, but it’s
>>>>> always been women who have said this to me over the years), when they come
>>>>> to a dance not KNOWING whether there MIGHT be a letch in the line, it is
>>>>> asking quite a lot to expect them to do a ballroom swing with whoever 
>>>>> comes
>>>>> at them. I am wondering whether the modified ballroom hold might make
>>>>> contra feel safer, especially for new dancers.
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> I’d love to hear what folks who have used both feel about the
>>>>> difference.
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> Becky
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> On Mar 13, 2024, at 4:34 PM, Julian Blechner <
>>>>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> I would love to read elaboration / articulation on why a ballroom
>>>>> hold feels more "intimate" than other holds?
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>>>>> >>> Wednesday, March 13, 2024 5:34 PM
>>>>> >>> I would love to read elaboration / articulation on why a ballroom
>>>>> hold feels more "intimate" than other holds?
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> Is it a matter of the historical social attachment we have in our
>>>>> minds with couples dances that use the hold, and romance in our culture?
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> Is it a physical proximity? (I find ceilidh holds to be closer,
>>>>> crossed arms has my hands bearish their belly which has its own intimacy 
>>>>> to
>>>>> me, though sometimes barrel holds can be done with a bit more space -
>>>>> though I wouldn't say the default)
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> Is it something else?
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> Maybe if we looked at the why, it'd give insight to what a
>>>>> solution to an alternate swing hold and/or an adjusted mindset might 
>>>>> entail?
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>> In dance,
>>>>> >>> Julian Blechner
>>>>> >>> He/him
>>>>> >>> Western Mass
>>>>> >>>
>>>>> >>>
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