On Thu, 28 Aug 2003, Robert Simmons wrote: > It is .. Ive been wrong before and I admit Im no Avalon or cocoon source > code expert. Im very direct in my style and I wish people wouldnt take it > offensively. I merely abhor cheerleading. There are lots of things I love > about cocoon but the logging irritates me. *shrug* =^)
>From someone who learned this himself the hard way: In an email conversation, don't expect your recipients to cope with 'your style' just because you have explained them you mean no harm, and you 'just happen to be direct'. I find it much more effective if you try and shape your style towards optimal reception by your recipients: not by easy excuses for your directness, but by showing _you_ are aware of this directness, and are willing to tone down in respect for your recipients. I'll now refrain from helping you in getting connected with this community, and I do hope you are able to flex your directness into a more positive style of communication. Don't expect us to feel honoured just by your presence. The fact you are coming back says all. With the best intentions, Cheers, </Steven>
