will considder that thanks for the sound advice.
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To: <[email protected]>
Sent: Tuesday, April 10, 2007 12:24 PM
Subject: Re: moderator of this list seeks consensus
may I give a level of advice here.
though it is fair to a degree to look at his behaviour it is not
necesserily
right to judge his behaviour nor to be completely against the person
involved. to deal with an issue like this you have to realise that no two
people are
alike in their temprements nore in behaviours or moods.
to handle this kind of situation you have to see beyond and behind the
behavioural pattern and approach with 1 a degree of caution and 2 total
respect.
as remember one should treat the other as one wishes to be treated. it
is a
perfect parralel of behavioural traits.
dont all go shooting this person down please. though I do not know him
fully. I have seen and moderated lists where this kind of situation has
arisen
and what damage can be done.
so please people consider the many factors of what you are handling and
the
thoughts and remarks which are passed on.
I'm sure that this certain person is skilled in what he does but may have
a
"Chip on his shoulder" and if so it can take one person to spark that off
or
one person to smooth the way for friendship. treat him with care but with
a
firm hand and resolution shall be found
speaking as a former tutor in music.
lew
