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Original Message: ----------------- From: Woody Jackson [EMAIL PROTECTED] Date: Tue, 10 Apr 2007 13:13:01 -0700 To: [email protected] Subject: Re: moderator of this list seeks consensus Gabe has quiet a bit of knowledge and actually wants to contribute. However, his method of communication grates on many other personality or temperament types. It is an issue of communication style and or skill. I empathize with Gabe quiet a bit as I know at times I have to be very aware and diplomatic in my communication or I too will appear arrogant, short or abrasive. It may not all come from ill intent. I think what would be useful for everyone including Gabe is for Gabe to have some self awareness in this issue and have some private mentorship or moderation in his posting here. Maybe a volunteer "vibes" watcher that could politely and privately email people suggesting that they stay on track with information provided in a concise and non-judgmental manner. It is silly to lose people over crude communication styles or abilities. The cycle of people leaving and Gabe getting booted needs to end. The onus is often placed upon the minority. It is really tantamount for Gabe to be aware and mentored. Perhaps the gentleman that receives some private support could volunteer to the moderator, list and Gabe. The responsibility would include re-writing his post and stripping out anything that was not information. Gabe's responsibility would be to be aware and practice writing posts that avoid inclusion or conjecture towards a persons ability or knowledge. We all of course need to have a thicker skin online then in our real world. And the moderator needs to make sure that that is stated in the sign up info. People need to be thick skinned, patient, and forgiving. Some of the perceived wrongs are much ado about nothing. The point is we should be clever in how to be inclusive. The whole world needs win win solutions. Would you not wish the same for yourself? Woody On Apr 10, 2007, at 12:24 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > no two people are > alike in their temprements nore in behaviours or moods. > > to handle this kind of situation you have to see beyond and behind the > behavioural pattern and approach with 1 a degree of caution and 2 > total respect. > as remember one should treat the other as one wishes to be treated. -------------------------------------------------------------------- mail2web - Check your email from the web at http://mail2web.com/ .
