--- In [email protected], "Llundrub" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> I shouldn't hate, I know I know, it gives me away for the joke I am. A veritable slap in Buddha's face. I shouldn't hate. I'm trying to overcome. **** Llundrub,I love your emotional sincerity. And you don't need to apologize for your sincere emotions. The reality is like this: People who cannot sincerely admit or own their feeling of hate, tend to act it out, harm others. It can happen in many secretive, manipulative ways. Also people who are physically violent, have difficulties in feeling hate consciously. They rather act out it in hostile ways. Expressing how you feel and why is not acting out. And it helps others too to be more honest with their emotions. Hate has an important function in putting limits, in differentiating from a symbiotic relationship. A mother who often in subtle ways discourages her children's expressions of fury and hate, puts their healthy inner growth to a halt, and powerfully contributes to the formation of false-self. The child is not allowed to feel what it feels. Emotional enlightenment is rather simple: Just feel what you feel with no judgement. When you learn to do that, you have no use for false-self, trickery, deception, manipulation of others etc. Irmeli To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
