Can I get a Hell Yea?
Well HELL YEA!
--- In [email protected], turquoiseb <no_reply@...> wrote:
>
> Five posts in a row, all trying to restart fights that
> blessedly had died down, all signed "Compassionately,
> Emily." Someone doesn't understand compassion.
>
> Let it go. Discussions here have moved on, even if you
> haven't. The person trying to get in the bitchy
> "last word" and restart things is YOU, Emily.
>
> --- In [email protected], Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
> >
> > Dear Share: Â This post of yours below is very dismissive and
demeaning. Â Raunchy was being very up front and considerate in her
post to you and you provided no information at all about what you think.
 You exited stage left again.  Are you one of those people who
hold grudges for life? Â Thank you for your kind thoughts for my
Thanksgiving. Â It was absolute hell despite the advance preparations
I made and I will never do another one with either of my beloved parents
in this lifetime, quite seriously. Â There is something about a
dinner table in our family that is not a good thing. Â Luckily, I
have gained immeasurable perspective from participating and reading
everyone here at FFL, including you. Â Luckily, raunchy posted that
lovely poem about rutabagas. Â Compassionately, Emily. Â Â
> >
> > ________________________________
> > From: Share Long sharelong60@
> > To: "[email protected]" [email protected]
> > Sent: Wednesday, November 21, 2012 3:46 AM
> > Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: to laughinggull a new kind of good
life
> >
> >
> > Â
> > dear RD, glitch equals stress. Everybody excepts saints, etc.
has such to greater or lesser degree. And they got it right when
they said that the later ones to go are the real biggies. Hope you
and your family have a wonderful Thanksgiving. You too, Emily in
case your lurking.
> >
> >
> >
> > ________________________________
> > From: raunchydog raunchydog@
> > To: [email protected]
> > Sent: Tuesday, November 20, 2012 9:24 AM
> > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to laughinggull a new kind of good life
> >
> >
> > Â
> >
> >
> > --- In [email protected], Share Long <sharelong60@>
wrote:
> > >
> > > LG, finally there's an opportunity to say something I've been
wanting to say to you for a few days. Which is, I think a lot of us
in Fairfield are living a new kind of good life. Consequently I
rarely if ever feel like a victim. Even childhood traumas I
recognize as opportunities to balance out karmic debts. Nonetheless
such traumas leave their influence in the form of chemical and or
structural glitches in the physical body, even in the physical component
of the psychology, the brain and nervous system.Â
> > >
> > >
> >
> > Share, I'd like to better understand what you tell us in this post.
Are you saying that due to childhood traumas you have a
chemical/physical "glitch" that effects your psychology and physiology?
Do you believe the research you cite indicating parental abandonment
causing elevated stress hormones permanently effecting the brain applies
to you? These are issues that seem personally important to you, enough
so, that you would raise them. I understand if you want to keep your
medical history private. I get the part about Fairfield being a place to
heal and you are doing your very best to do so. I guess what it comes
down to is that I don't know what your gliches are and how exactly you
believe this effects your life. Are you offering this post to help us
understand your interactions with people on FFLife or in real life? If
so, how so?
> >
> > > To cite just one example, there is research which indicates that
in a child whose father goes away for a year, the level of stress
hormones in the body stays elevated for a year even after the father has
returned. In turn that long term elevated level does something
seemingly permanent to the brain. I say seemingly because I do
believe there are powerful and natural techniques for healing even such
seemingly permanent damage. Anyway, these glitches must first be
recognized before they can be addressed and healed.
> > >
> > >
> > > This is all simply to say that I don't feel like a victim of
anyone or anything. But I do recognize my glitches and I pursue
healing them. But because I can pursue healing them, I don't feel
like a victim at all. Just the opposite, I feel very fortunate.
> > >
> > >
> > > Now to fold in the Antifragile post:Â I feel grateful for
Fairfield because it is a place where I can fairly easily deal with
these glitches and still make something of a contribution to others.Â
Obviously some people have few glitches. Perhaps they are the ones
who thrive in places like NYC. But I believe that the world needs
all kinds of people. FF has all kinds, including Jeffrey Smith who
is world renowned opponent of GMO and those who are in the Dome 7-8
hours a day and those who are retired and frequent the cafes.Â
> > >
> > >
> > > FF offers a new and very good kind of life. FFL hopefully
helps me integrate all that goodness. Off to Dome and thank you
(-:Â Â
> > >
> >
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