--- In [email protected], awoelflebater <no_reply@...> wrote: > > > > --- In [email protected], "seventhray1" lurkernomore20002000@ wrote: > > > > Can I get a Hell Yea? > > Well HELL YEA! > > No you may not, not in this case Steve. > I think your chivalry to be misplaced.
That is always a possibility. I am glad to have moved past the whole discussion, at least for now. > > --- In [email protected], turquoiseb <no_reply@> wrote: > > > > > > Five posts in a row, all trying to restart fights that > > > blessedly had died down, all signed "Compassionately, > > > Emily." Someone doesn't understand compassion. > > > > > > Let it go. Discussions here have moved on, even if you > > > haven't. The person trying to get in the bitchy > > > "last word" and restart things is YOU, Emily. > > > > > > --- In [email protected], Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Share:  This post of yours below is very dismissive and > > demeaning.  Raunchy was being very up front and considerate in her > > post to you and you provided no information at all about what you think. > >  You exited stage left again.  Are you one of those people who > > hold grudges for life?  Thank you for your kind thoughts for my > > Thanksgiving.  It was absolute hell despite the advance preparations > > I made and I will never do another one with either of my beloved parents > > in this lifetime, quite seriously.  There is something about a > > dinner table in our family that is not a good thing.  Luckily, I > > have gained immeasurable perspective from participating and reading > > everyone here at FFL, including you.  Luckily, raunchy posted that > > lovely poem about rutabagas.  Compassionately, Emily.   > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > From: Share Long sharelong60@ > > > > To: "[email protected]" [email protected] > > > > Sent: Wednesday, November 21, 2012 3:46 AM > > > > Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: to laughinggull a new kind of good > > life > > > > > > > > > > > >  > > > > dear RD, glitch equals stress. Everybody excepts saints, etc. > > has such to greater or lesser degree. And they got it right when > > they said that the later ones to go are the real biggies. Hope you > > and your family have a wonderful Thanksgiving. You too, Emily in > > case your lurking. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > From: raunchydog raunchydog@ > > > > To: [email protected] > > > > Sent: Tuesday, November 20, 2012 9:24 AM > > > > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to laughinggull a new kind of good life > > > > > > > > > > > >  > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In [email protected], Share Long <sharelong60@> > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > LG, finally there's an opportunity to say something I've been > > wanting to say to you for a few days. Which is, I think a lot of us > > in Fairfield are living a new kind of good life. Consequently I > > rarely if ever feel like a victim. Even childhood traumas I > > recognize as opportunities to balance out karmic debts. Nonetheless > > such traumas leave their influence in the form of chemical and or > > structural glitches in the physical body, even in the physical component > > of the psychology, the brain and nervous system. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Share, I'd like to better understand what you tell us in this post. > > Are you saying that due to childhood traumas you have a > > chemical/physical "glitch" that effects your psychology and physiology? > > Do you believe the research you cite indicating parental abandonment > > causing elevated stress hormones permanently effecting the brain applies > > to you? These are issues that seem personally important to you, enough > > so, that you would raise them. I understand if you want to keep your > > medical history private. I get the part about Fairfield being a place to > > heal and you are doing your very best to do so. I guess what it comes > > down to is that I don't know what your gliches are and how exactly you > > believe this effects your life. Are you offering this post to help us > > understand your interactions with people on FFLife or in real life? If > > so, how so? > > > > > > > > > To cite just one example, there is research which indicates that > > in a child whose father goes away for a year, the level of stress > > hormones in the body stays elevated for a year even after the father has > > returned. In turn that long term elevated level does something > > seemingly permanent to the brain. I say seemingly because I do > > believe there are powerful and natural techniques for healing even such > > seemingly permanent damage. Anyway, these glitches must first be > > recognized before they can be addressed and healed. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > This is all simply to say that I don't feel like a victim of > > anyone or anything. But I do recognize my glitches and I pursue > > healing them. But because I can pursue healing them, I don't feel > > like a victim at all. Just the opposite, I feel very fortunate. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Now to fold in the Antifragile post: I feel grateful for > > Fairfield because it is a place where I can fairly easily deal with > > these glitches and still make something of a contribution to others. > > Obviously some people have few glitches. Perhaps they are the ones > > who thrive in places like NYC. But I believe that the world needs > > all kinds of people. FF has all kinds, including Jeffrey Smith who > > is world renowned opponent of GMO and those who are in the Dome 7-8 > > hours a day and those who are retired and frequent the cafes. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > FF offers a new and very good kind of life. FFL hopefully > > helps me integrate all that goodness. Off to Dome and thank you > > (-:  > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >
