--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray1" <lurkernomore20002000@...> wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" <raunchydog@> > wrote: > > Judy backs up her ideas with facts that she doesn't make up. Her > forthright style of presenting posts in evidence of your own words in > the archives is perhaps emotionally unsettling, a "trigger" making you > feel defensive but it doesn't negate the truth of what she says or what > you have written. Rather than lash out at Judy ineffectually, deal with > your "triggers" and deal with the reality of what she says, not as a > victim but as an equally intelligent adult. If you want to make a case > against her you cannot do this successfully if the starting point of > your defense is based on fantasy. > > As the wise woman said: > > I hope you're not saying that *your* and your support group's reality is > the one > closest to the truth and that there's a need in you and in your support > group to > convince others to accept this. That would be proselytizing, wouldn't > it? If > *that's* the case, then perhaps you and I have nothing to discuss > because we are > never going to see eye to eye. I'm hoping that *isn't* the case. >
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