--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@...> wrote: > > Jesus, Robin! Can't you answer a question either?! Ok. What scares you > a little about John Newton? Or scared past tense just in case it's already > gone. And btw if you really want to be scared, check out his teacher, the > originator of the forgiveness prayers, kahuna Howard Wills.
Look, Share: After having looked at my experience I would say that John scares me JUST A TEENY BIT. And I think some of my good karma might just take it away. And then I can say to you--and mean it: JOHN DON'T SCARE ME NO HOW. I look forward to telling you that, and when I do, I want you to believe me. > Over and out, I'm off to writing group. You know, how Emily says I post and > then go somewhere else. I guess it's ok that she runs to the coast, walks > her dog etc. She a pretty shallow person--IMO. And she never wants to feel the pain of what it is like to be a human being. Way too sure of herself. I think you have handled her insulting provocations beautifully. > Great! Now I'm ranting. Yeah, yeah, much love to you too. And what the > heck, to the whole screwy gang! Share: I am NOT one of the screwy ones. And either are YOU! > ________________________________ > From: Robin Carlsen <maskedzebra@...> > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Monday, December 10, 2012 1:03 PM > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Emily about extremely polarized thinking > > >  > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@> wrote: > > > > Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaak!àToo late!àI already replied to RD.àBut what > > the heck stung her about John Newton for God's sake?!àHas she even met > > the man?!àNo, I think it's what I say at the end of my reply to > > her.àShe made John Newton wrong to make me wrong.àAnd we all know > > why the women want to make me wrong.àSo you and them can continue to be > > right right RIGHT.àPathetic!àWhat are they so insecure about? à> > > > > > And why the heck does he scare you, Robin?àOr are you being ironic? > > àà> > I SAID: "just a LITTLE, Share. And that fear may go soon anyways. Please > don't misquote me: to say "John scares me" is quite different from saying: > John scares me JUST A LITTLE. > > > BTW, I said it was a NEW low for Emily and Raunchy.àNot so new for > > Ravi, right? > > As far as I am concerned, Ravi is just full of hate--especially for strong > and loving women. If he likes you (and you are a woman), that means you're > weak and pathetic. Dr Salyavin has provided us with a nifty diagnostic > summation anyhow. I agree with him. > > Jesus. I hope I am not losing it again. Much love and over and out. > > Robin > > > > > ________________________________ > > From: Robin Carlsen <maskedzebra@> > > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > > Sent: Monday, December 10, 2012 12:41 PM > > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to Emily about extremely polarized thinking > > > > > > à> > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" <raunchydog@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Emily I think the main cult characteristics are thinking the cult and > > > > its leader are almost all positive.àAND what I've come to think is > > > > an even more telling indicator of cultishness,àthinking that those > > > > who don't agree with the cult and its leader are almost all > > > > negative.àSo when the writing of a FFL person expresses such > > > > extremely polarized thinking, then I think that person is fundamentally > > > > aligned with the group I've been calling wts.à> > > > > > > > > > A telling indicator of cluelessness is when a whole lot of people agree > > > with each other about your behavior, you think there's something wrong > > > with them and not yourself. Then, rather than consider it a gift from the > > > universe that an entire group of people have given you exactly the same > > > feedback, you dismiss them as a "cult" (an utterly laughable > > > rationalization) and then run off to "healers" to validate your > > > cluelessness. Healing in right in front of your face. Refusing to see it > > > is what needs healing. > > > > > > > > > > > For example, Judy has labeled me the most toxic person AND labeled > > > > Robin's WTS intentions the absolute highest and purest.àI think > > > > these phrases indicate extremely polarized thinking as expressed by the > > > > use of verbal superlatives.à> > > > > > > > > > > > The problem with such extremely polarized thinking IMO is that it > > > > totally misses an essential truth about us human beings, which is that > > > > we are all a mix of positive and negative and that most of us are > > > > mostly positive with a a glitch or two thrown in to keep us embodied > > > > and growing.àAnd some of us have more and or bigger glitches. > > > > > > > > Another essential truth is that we humans are going to make mistakes > > > > whether our glitches are big or little, few or many.àIn regards to > > > > this I have also noticed that a big feature of extremely polarized > > > > thinking is that it does not allow for making mistakes, learning from > > > > them and forgiveness.àThis too I think is very harmful. > > > > > > > > As far as I'm > > > > concerned it's up to you to decide if you're a member of wts.àI'm > > > > only weighing in on this because you and others are STILL bringing it > > > > up!àBTW this is another indicator of cultishness IMO because it too > > > > has an element of being extreme in its expression.àAlso BTW I keep > > > > saying IMO to indicate that I realize what I'm saying is only my > > > > opinion based on my observations.àNothing more. > > > > > > > > > > > > Of all the wts people I think you're pretty fluid in your thinking.à> > > > But you still are sometimes extreme in the negative direction towards > > > > me and towards other non wts people like Barry.àOften I think your > > > > negativity is expressed cleverly and pseudo playfully.àNonetheless > > > > the extreme negativity underneath is discernible.àAnd as I say > > > > above, this extremely polarized thinking in the negative direction has > > > > become for me the clearest indication of someone's being in the group I > > > > call wts. > > > > > > > > > > > > PSàA very recent example of your extremely negative thinking about > > > > me:àI made no judgement about Raunchy's grand daughter.àI was > > > > expressing an opinion about the BENEFICIAL effect I thought John > > > > Newton's work would have on Raunchy and the people in her life.àIMO > > > > both you and Raunchy reached a new low with those posts. à> > > > > > > > > > Who me, new lows? What about Gopi Boy? "Ravi called Newton "fucking > > > delusional," but he didn't get a gauntlet (or even a guantlet) thrown at > > > him either." > > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/328870 > > > > > > BTW if John Newton, himself hadn't thought the "fainting goat" riff was > > > humorous, I'd wonder even more than I do about his bona fides. > > > > Don't bite, Share. She's just trying to get back at you. You stung her. I > > kinda like that. With Emily, I'd say just FO. You're good, Share. John > > scares me just a little. And that's fine too. > > > > > >
