--- In [email protected], navashok <no_reply@...> wrote: > > --- In [email protected], turquoiseb <no_reply@> wrote: > > <snip> > > I actually look upon this as a fairly healthy and some- > > what more evolved way of dealing with sex and romance. > > Who, after all, would ever want to hook up with someone > > who has all these fantasies of the perfect lover or mate > > running around in their heads, so much so that they LONG > > for them or develop an abstract NEED for them? I don't > > know about you, but every time I've run into a woman > > like that and been foolish enough to get involved with > > them anyway, I've learned very quickly that they were > > never relating to me *at all*, just to the fantasies > > in their heads. > > Great post Barry. As a friend of mine said it recently: if you date, it's not > just a nice woman, but a whole set of Samskaras, desires, ideations, well > Karma, and at some point, you ask yourself, if you really want all of that.
That's about as relevant as Larry Domash stating back in about 1977 with regard to the art department at MIU, "Who wants to see a bunch of unstressing put up on the walls?" (Speaking about displaying/hanging students' and professors' art work.) >
