--- In [email protected], "Xenophaneros Anartaxius" <anartaxius@...> wrote: > > --- In [email protected], "authfriend" <authfriend@> wrote: > > > > --- In [email protected], doctordumbass@ <no_reply@> wrote: > > > > > > Yep, this piece was written specifically for you, Judy. > > > Barry definitely, and tragically, has a hard on for you, > > > so to speak. > > > > Does he not recognize this himself, or does he just think > > nobody else does? > > > > I have never in my life encountered anyone who was *less* > > aware of how he appears to others. > > It is pretty hard not to notice how one appears to others > on FFL. We all have a wonderfully developed ability to > ignore this. We continue to slog through the droppings, > their's and ours. Depending on our position on the Bell > curve of narcissism, perhaps some of us cannot ignore this. > > This refers to the description of how others say they see > us. In line with the discussion in the paper 'What Is it > Like to Be a Bat?' by Nagel - as a direct experience, we > can never know how others see us. In line with that we > can keep slogging on without regret.
The last refuge of the narcissist is, "He/she doesn't 'really' believe what he/she is saying about us...he/ she is LYING." We're not. That's how we really see these idiots. But they can't accept that, and still hold on to their narcissist fantasies about themselves, so they invent the "LYING" meme. I don't think anyone really buys it any more except them, but hey!...for the narcissist, no one else *but* them counts. :-) What amazes me is that they don't seem to realize that by making generic raps about Bad Behavior seem as if they were direct attacks on them personally, they are *admitting* to the Bad Behavior, and to identifying with it so much with it that they feel that the rap "had to" be about them, so much so that they have to "defend" themselves. Go figure.
