Doc, thanks again for caring, taking the time to reply, sharing your ideas. Now about boundaries: I think it's really hard to tell if someone is setting boundaries in an online community. Just so you know, something Sig Other complained about, I set plenty of them. And Nature nicely supplements. For example, on Monday night, well Tuesday morning really, I woke up at 1:30 Central and could not get back to sleep! Awful, awful. I did something which I do maybe 1 or 2 times a year. I turned on the computer! Very dumb! Saw that Judy and Raunchy had just posted! Now here's a boundary for you: I did not read those posts at that time! Very smart! Still haven't read all the posts that were posted Monday night/early Tuesday morning. Again, very smart IMHO (-:
Anyway, when I eventually read turq's post, I was already wrecked from lack of sleep, dulled out, etc. I think that was a loving boundary from Mother Nature (-: Yikes! Time for Dome, more later. Thank you again. ________________________________ From: "doctordumb...@rocketmail.com" <doctordumb...@rocketmail.com> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 11:15 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share You are welcome - I find turq's behavior towards you reprehensible, and always will. I don't know why you are willingly a target for his abuse. He severely compromises your public identity for those who are reading this forum. Maybe that is very few of us. However, I would think that you would set a boundary for that public behavior, of his, towards you. Not because it gets to you, but because it is childish, and meant to be hurtful. Through daily activity, I am around children, of all ages, and the thing they must learn is boundaries, for their own sake. So, whatever age the child, I never hesitate to reinforce boundaries with them. That way, they have half a chance of growing up to be kind, socially integrated adults. I don't hold my breath, beyond taking an action to set boundaries, but neither do I blithely let the moment pass. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@...> wrote: > > Doc, thank you. Susan is also friendly towards turq as are several including > but not limited to Steve and Curtis and Xeno, sort of. Anyway, as I replied > to Emily long ago, what I mean by psychological rape is when someone > attributes thoughts and feelings to me that I'm not having. turq doesn't do > that. I guess what turq said should bother me. But he has told me to STFU > before! He has called me an idiot before and the worst kind of TBer, > attention seeker, etc. So nothing new really. And maybe he was shocked by how > much I posted. I was too! Anyway, it's just turq being turq. BTW, I don't > think of us as friends or allies or anything like that. We both like the > Minion movies. That's about the extent of what we have in common. I come to > his defense when people gang up on him. But I would do that for anyone > because it is a pet peeve of mine. And he has been supportive of me when I > have been ganged up on. That has meant a lot. Anyway, I hope he has a great > vacation. And shall we let the river flow on? > > > ________________________________ > From: "doctordumbass@..." <doctordumbass@...> > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 8:53 PM > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share > > > >  > Assuming Barry has everything all tidied up at home, as he often assures us > he does, and given that he basically lost control of his bowels today, > Tuesday, indicates that he probably got humiliated in a meeting at work, or > works for someone who makes his life miserable, or both. Or maybe it was just > another dateless weekend...who really knows, except that there WAS some sort > of trigger event... > > Barry is like a powder keg on here, compulsively scanning his spreadsheets, > obsessively tracking who said what, and in direct competition with that > persona, he must maintain the uber-cool, global AND glacial, Uncle Tantra > image. > > Feels like sandpaper inside him, though, the itch he cannot scratch, until he > finds a target, no matter how inappropriate. He violates all of his public > boundaries, for his release - He Just Has To Let It OUT. > > And while he is at it, why not kill two birds, with a single stone? After > all, Share considers him to be the big brother she never had, and is the only > one here who consistently treats him in a friendly way. > > But this, remember, is Barry The Magnificent, liver in of foreign countries, > who has screwed more women than any of us can count, and is practically on a > first name basis with Anybody Who Really Matters. > > So, he thought about the pros, and cons, of keeping Share around. Ally, or > simply an embarrassment? Pretty obvious what Barry's choice was: > > "SHUT THE FUCK UP [Share] > > We get it that you don't care how unintelligent you come across, and > that you're trying to single-handedly prove the contention of anti-TM > critics that TMers are blissninnies without a brain cell in their thick > skulls who will believe anything if they're told its Woo Woo enough..." > > BTW, Share, I think you have an EXCELLENT case for psychological rape, now. > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ann" <awoelflebater@> wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <authfriend@> wrote: > > > > > > "The 'mean girls' trying to 'get' you are an embarrassment > > > to the notion of humans having compassion..." > > > > > > So if the "mean girls" wanted to stop trying to "get" > > > Share and exercise compassion toward her instead, we > > > should strive to emulate Barry, as he has modeled > > > compassion for us in this SHUT THE FUCK UP post to Share. > > > > > > Did I get that right, Barry? We "mean girls" are an > > > embarrassment to the notion of humans having compassion, > > > whereas you are an exemplar thereof? > > > > If FFL was anything like the 3D world Barry would be embarrassed to show > > his face let alone continue on as if he did not just present himself as > > just about the biggest dickhead on the planet. As if at least half of the > > readers here are not repulsed by him and the ugliness that consumes him > > inside. It is indeed some phenomenon to watch this dick-wad carry on as if > > he did not just perform the equivalent of raping the hostess of a party in > > front of her husband, take a dump on the dining room floor and kick the > > family dog on the way out the front door while flipping the remaining party > > guests the bird. Barry disgusts me in every way. "Asshole" is too kind a > > word. He can carry on oblivious to his violations, and will no doubt do so, > > until his last, wretched breath. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb <no_reply@> wrote: > > > > > > > > SHUT THE FUCK UP > > > > > > > > We get it that you don't care how unintelligent you come across, and > > > > that you're trying to single-handedly prove the contention of anti-TM > > > > critics that TMers are blissninnies without a brain cell in their thick > > > > skulls who will believe anything if they're told its Woo Woo enough. But > > > > do you have to be such a codependent, attention-seeking masochist about > > > > it? > > > > > > > > Not only have you been making yourself the object of pursuit of your Jr. > > > > High School-mentality tormentors, you've been doing it *purposefully*. > > > > For fuck's sake, STOP. > > > > > > > > You're even more boring than they are as they chase you endlessly like a > > > > dog chases a ball. The "mean girls" trying to "get" you are an > > > > embarrassment to the notion of humans having compassion, but you're an > > > > embarrassment to the notion of humans having intelligence. > > > > > > > > They're doing this because they have no choice; they're the dogs in this > > > > scenario: > > > > > > > > > > > > [https://fbcdn-sphotos-e-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/q71/1002189_1015\ > > > > 1783564220211_2025423059_n.jpg] > > > > > > > > You're doing it because you're not terribly smart, or interesting, and > > > > you crave attention anyway. And you don't fucking care whether you drag > > > > a whole forum down to your level of idiocy to get it. > > > > > > > > > >
