Hi, You are welcome.
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@...> wrote:
>
> Doc, thanks again for caring, taking the time to reply, sharing your ideas.
> Now about boundaries: I think it's really hard to tell if someone is setting
> boundaries in an online community. Just so you know, something Sig Other
> complained about, I set plenty of them. And Nature nicely supplements. For
> example, on Monday night, well Tuesday morning really, I woke up at 1:30
> Central and could not get back to sleep! Awful, awful. I did something which
> I do maybe 1 or 2 times a year. I turned on the computer! Very dumb! Saw that
> Judy and Raunchy had just posted! Now here's a boundary for you: I did not
> read those posts at that time! Very smart! Still haven't read all the posts
> that were posted Monday night/early Tuesday morning. Again, very smart IMHO
> (-:
>
> Anyway, when I eventually read turq's post, I was already wrecked from lack
> of sleep, dulled out, etc. I think that was a loving boundary from Mother
> Nature (-:
>
> Yikes! Time for Dome, more later. Thank you again.
>
>
>
>
> ________________________________
> From: "doctordumbass@..." <doctordumbass@...>
> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 11:15 PM
> Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share
>
>
>
> Â
> You are welcome - I find turq's behavior towards you reprehensible, and
> always will. I don't know why you are willingly a target for his abuse. He
> severely compromises your public identity for those who are reading this
> forum. Maybe that is very few of us. However, I would think that you would
> set a boundary for that public behavior, of his, towards you. Not because it
> gets to you, but because it is childish, and meant to be hurtful.
>
> Through daily activity, I am around children, of all ages, and the thing they
> must learn is boundaries, for their own sake. So, whatever age the child, I
> never hesitate to reinforce boundaries with them. That way, they have half a
> chance of growing up to be kind, socially integrated adults. I don't hold my
> breath, beyond taking an action to set boundaries, but neither do I blithely
> let the moment pass.
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@> wrote:
> >
> > Doc, thank you. Susan is also friendly towards turq as are several
> > including but not limited to Steve and Curtis and Xeno, sort of. Anyway, as
> > I replied to Emily long ago, what I mean by psychological rape is when
> > someone attributes thoughts and feelings to me that I'm not having. turq
> > doesn't do that. I guess what turq said should bother me. But he has told
> > me to STFU before! He has called me an idiot before and the worst kind of
> > TBer, attention seeker, etc. So nothing new really. And maybe he was
> > shocked by how much I posted. I was too! Anyway, it's just turq being turq.
> > BTW, I don't think of us as friends or allies or anything like that. We
> > both like the Minion movies. That's about the extent of what we have in
> > common. I come to his defense when people gang up on him. But I would do
> > that for anyone because it is a pet peeve of mine. And he has been
> > supportive of me when I have been ganged up on. That has meant a lot.
> > Anyway, I hope he has a great
> > vacation. And shall we let the river flow on?ÃÂ
> >
> >
> > ________________________________
> > From: "doctordumbass@" <doctordumbass@>
> > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
> > Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 8:53 PM
> > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share
> >
> >
> >
> > ÃÂ
> > Assuming Barry has everything all tidied up at home, as he often assures us
> > he does, and given that he basically lost control of his bowels today,
> > Tuesday, indicates that he probably got humiliated in a meeting at work, or
> > works for someone who makes his life miserable, or both. Or maybe it was
> > just another dateless weekend...who really knows, except that there WAS
> > some sort of trigger event...
> >
> > Barry is like a powder keg on here, compulsively scanning his spreadsheets,
> > obsessively tracking who said what, and in direct competition with that
> > persona, he must maintain the uber-cool, global AND glacial, Uncle Tantra
> > image.
> >
> > Feels like sandpaper inside him, though, the itch he cannot scratch, until
> > he finds a target, no matter how inappropriate. He violates all of his
> > public boundaries, for his release - He Just Has To Let It OUT.
> >
> > And while he is at it, why not kill two birds, with a single stone? After
> > all, Share considers him to be the big brother she never had, and is the
> > only one here who consistently treats him in a friendly way.
> >
> > But this, remember, is Barry The Magnificent, liver in of foreign
> > countries, who has screwed more women than any of us can count, and is
> > practically on a first name basis with Anybody Who Really Matters.
> >
> > So, he thought about the pros, and cons, of keeping Share around. Ally, or
> > simply an embarrassment? Pretty obvious what Barry's choice was:
> >
> > "SHUT THE FUCK UP [Share]
> >
> > We get it that you don't care how unintelligent you come across, and
> > that you're trying to single-handedly prove the contention of anti-TM
> > critics that TMers are blissninnies without a brain cell in their thick
> > skulls who will believe anything if they're told its Woo Woo enough..."
> >
> > BTW, Share, I think you have an EXCELLENT case for psychological rape, now.
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ann" <awoelflebater@> wrote:
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <authfriend@> wrote:
> > > >
> > > > "The 'mean girls' trying to 'get' you are an embarrassment
> > > > to the notion of humans having compassion..."
> > > >
> > > > So if the "mean girls" wanted to stop trying to "get"
> > > > Share and exercise compassion toward her instead, we
> > > > should strive to emulate Barry, as he has modeled
> > > > compassion for us in this SHUT THE FUCK UP post to Share.
> > > >
> > > > Did I get that right, Barry? We "mean girls" are an
> > > > embarrassment to the notion of humans having compassion,
> > > > whereas you are an exemplar thereof?
> > >
> > > If FFL was anything like the 3D world Barry would be embarrassed to show
> > > his face let alone continue on as if he did not just present himself as
> > > just about the biggest dickhead on the planet. As if at least half of the
> > > readers here are not repulsed by him and the ugliness that consumes him
> > > inside. It is indeed some phenomenon to watch this dick-wad carry on as
> > > if he did not just perform the equivalent of raping the hostess of a
> > > party in front of her husband, take a dump on the dining room floor and
> > > kick the family dog on the way out the front door while flipping the
> > > remaining party guests the bird. Barry disgusts me in every way.
> > > "Asshole" is too kind a word. He can carry on oblivious to his
> > > violations, and will no doubt do so, until his last, wretched breath.
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb <no_reply@> wrote:
> > > > >
> > > > > SHUT THE FUCK UP
> > > > >
> > > > > We get it that you don't care how unintelligent you come across, and
> > > > > that you're trying to single-handedly prove the contention of anti-TM
> > > > > critics that TMers are blissninnies without a brain cell in their
> > > > > thick
> > > > > skulls who will believe anything if they're told its Woo Woo enough.
> > > > > But
> > > > > do you have to be such a codependent, attention-seeking masochist
> > > > > about
> > > > > it?
> > > > >
> > > > > Not only have you been making yourself the object of pursuit of your
> > > > > Jr.
> > > > > High School-mentality tormentors, you've been doing it *purposefully*.
> > > > > For fuck's sake, STOP.
> > > > >
> > > > > You're even more boring than they are as they chase you endlessly
> > > > > like a
> > > > > dog chases a ball. The "mean girls" trying to "get" you are an
> > > > > embarrassment to the notion of humans having compassion, but you're an
> > > > > embarrassment to the notion of humans having intelligence.
> > > > >
> > > > > They're doing this because they have no choice; they're the dogs in
> > > > > this
> > > > > scenario:
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > [https://fbcdn-sphotos-e-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/q71/1002189_1015\
> > > > > 1783564220211_2025423059_n.jpg]
> > > > >
> > > > > You're doing it because you're not terribly smart, or interesting, and
> > > > > you crave attention anyway. And you don't fucking care whether you
> > > > > drag
> > > > > a whole forum down to your level of idiocy to get it.
> > > > >
> > > >
> > >
> >
>
