--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonybliss_ff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: <snip> > Judy, you could just let him stew in his own juices. You don't have > to take it on. It must feel awful enough already to feel like he > does. By continuing to engage him you just absorb his stuff and it > gives him an out from having to take responsibility for himself, > the opposite of what you say you want to achieve. IMO, better to > just be a (ok, relatively) silent mirror, then all it can do is > reflect back at him—his mind, his thoughts, his feelings, his > creation and he can take responsibility for it.
If some others would tell him what he needs to hear, as you just did, I'd be happy to shut up. Thanks for your comments. ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
