thus possibly on the cusp of actually some kind of
positive breakthrough, I made an exception to my
"rule" and went back and read Judy's posts of the
last few days. The use of one word in one of them
just screams to be addressed, and so I'm going to
make another exception and reply to it:
> > Sorry, Judy. That was my impression. It may be erroneous, but
> > nothing so far has reversed it. Could others chime in on this
> > please? Was I off the beam?
>
> One person, Mike Hutchinson, has had the guts to
> come out of lurkdom and buck the mob mind, apparently
> because he actually read the posts in the exchange.
I'd like everyone hear to search their memories,
and try to figure out exactly *who* it is on FFL
who consistently appeals *to* "mob mind." Who is
it who actively calls on other posters to put
down the ones she doesn't like? Who is it who
praises other posters here when they "pile on"
to someone she has just trashed? Who is it who
actually writes diatribes berating the people on
FFL for *not* "standing up" to me and others she
doesn't like, suggesting that they're somehow
failing on their god-given duties to do so?
And now, when a few people are coming out of the
woodwork and saying what they think of her and
her tactics, suddenly it's "mob mind."
Well live with it, babe. You cultivated this mind-
set here, and now it's aimed at you. Doesn't feel
good, does it?
Personally I am *heartened* that a few people have
spoken up. I was beginning to wonder what people
really felt. Now I know.
But my sincere advice to those who have spoken up
to Judy at this point and told her what they think
of her is that they should now LET IT GO.
The horribly damaged ego that does these things
WANTS you to keep interacting with her and arguing
with her. It is how it keeps itself alive. She
*thrives* on people arguing with her, and her ego
thus getting another chance to assert itself and
prove itself "right" and the others "wrong" and
deserving of only contempt. It's the whole game
that keeps her able to keep doing this shit.
It's a kind of co-dependency.
LET IT GO. The longer we fall for her goading and
get into head-to-head confrontations with her, the
sicker she gets. Out of COMPASSION, don't give her
what she wants. When she tries to provoke you into
a fight, turn the other cheek, or butt cheek, if
you have to get in one last dig before walking away.
But DO walk away.
In my considered and battered opinion, having dealt
with this woman for over ten years, it's the best
thing you could possibly do -- for your own state
of consciousness, and for hers.
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