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> > One person, Mike Hutchinson, has had the guts to
> > come out of lurkdom and buck the mob mind, apparently
> > because he actually read the posts in the exchange.
>
> I'd like everyone hear to search their memories,
> and try to figure out exactly *who* it is on FFL
> who consistently appeals *to* "mob mind." Who is
> it who actively calls on other posters to put
> down the ones she doesn't like? Who is it who
> praises other posters here when they "pile on"
> to someone she has just trashed? Who is it who
> actually writes diatribes berating the people on
> FFL for *not* "standing up" to me and others she
> doesn't like, suggesting that they're somehow
> failing on their god-given duties to do so?
Barry, in fact, it's just you I've done this with.
And it's not just because I "don't like" you.
> And now, when a few people are coming out of the
> woodwork and saying what they think of her and
> her tactics, suddenly it's "mob mind."
>
> Well live with it, babe. You cultivated this mind-
> set here, and now it's aimed at you. Doesn't feel
> good, does it?
>
> Personally I am *heartened* that a few people have
> spoken up. I was beginning to wonder what people
> really felt. Now I know.
>
> But my sincere advice to those who have spoken up
> to Judy at this point and told her what they think
> of her is that they should now LET IT GO.
>
> The horribly damaged ego that does these things
> WANTS you to keep interacting with her and arguing
> with her. It is how it keeps itself alive. She
> *thrives* on people arguing with her, and her ego
> thus getting another chance to assert itself and
> prove itself "right" and the others "wrong" and
> deserving of only contempt. It's the whole game
> that keeps her able to keep doing this shit.
> It's a kind of co-dependency.
>
> LET IT GO. The longer we fall for her goading and
> get into head-to-head confrontations with her, the
> sicker she gets. Out of COMPASSION, don't give her
> what she wants. When she tries to provoke you into
> a fight, turn the other cheek, or butt cheek, if
> you have to get in one last dig before walking away.
>
> But DO walk away.
>
> In my considered and battered opinion, having dealt
> with this woman for over ten years, it's the best
> thing you could possibly do -- for your own state
> of consciousness, and for hers.
>
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