I honestly think celibacy is an unhealthy practice. Use it or lose it is the rule in biology. Semen was considered magic in Vedic culture, but MMY's belief that it get transmuted into soma is just pre-scientific nonsense. The body does not work that way. On the other hand, believing that you are losing magical energy by having sex is a great way to insure that you will not have a fulfilling intimate relationship with your partner. Sex is not only natural, it is one of the greatest communications you can have with someone you love.
Believing that you should hold it back is a sad metaphor for holding back your heart or other energy from the people you love in your life. Losing this misunderstanding about how my body worked was one of the greatest benefits of my leaving MMY's belief system. Sex is not a loss of energy, or a lower use of your life force. Even if you are not in love with someone, don't give up on sex. As the great sage Woody Alan said: " Sex without love is an empty, meaningless experience. But among empty, meaningless experiences, it is one of the best!" As each cast member of Seinfield on the famous Bramacharin episode said one by one: "I'm out!" --- In [email protected], cardemaister <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > What is the longest time youse have stayed > /uurdhva-retas/("brahmacharin")? Does it become "easier" > after a couple of weeks or so? > --- In [email protected], cardemaister <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > What is the longest time youse have stayed > /uurdhva-retas/("brahmacharin")? Does it become "easier" > after a couple of weeks or so? > To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
