I belong to three lists. Two for CRF and this one...oddly enough, on two out of the three this week there has been this...shall we say....abruptness, and even some tension on the third.
I wonder if its not simply a case of ..I don't know..." negative otherness"...affecting all these very caring, loving, sharing people - all of a sudden- all in one week.
Remember, advice given, whether asked for or not..., whether appropriate or not, is done for the best of intentions, to help, not belittle or hurt, (even if it is taken as such).
We are all apart of these lists because we care so deeply, we are here because we love someone we are trying to protect. We are here sor someone else's good.
Peace....(?)!
"Gloria B. Lane" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Hmmm ok - it's a bit like a barroom brawl, not that I've been in one.
At 12:18 PM 12/10/2004, you wrote:
>----- Original Message -----
>From: "Gloria B. Lane" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>Sent: Friday, December 10, 2004 12:57 PM
>Subject: Re: For Ong; contentiousness
>
>
> > People give unrequested advice all the time - it's just nice to try to
> > develop a little, uh, sensitivity or finesse, perhaps. Something to grow
> > with, perhaps... :)
>
>I said I was sorry, so give it a rest.
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