Yeah, you would also say that when .NET was supported wonderfully and we got the problem with Java or ColdFusion connectivity? Now I can really care less about Java myself, but I can do tell that would hear the same sounds then.
Of course, it ain't difficult to write some good connector .NET <> Flex/Flash. It's just sad that you need to spend time on it, while its being one of the those programming languages widely used. Yours, Weyert de Boe