>I'm like that too. I hate it. I always pick bastards. >What's my friggin' problem? > The problem does lie with you. Not that you only imagine them to be bastards but that you are attracted to and accept treatment/behaviour that is detrimental to you but that you are used to. Once we have learned to value our own selves, we cease to be attracted to those that don't value us. I certainly know this was true for me.i always made friends with people who ttreated me like those who brought me up. thus I was always unhappy and always being mistreated.Then i wised up.
People are different, mrena nd women are different. each deals wiht life differently, feels differently and expresses life differently.Quite often we expect from others that which they cannot give. We expect them to be like us when they are not. Just ebcause a man does not express his feelings in the way we wuld wnat, does not make them 'unfeeling'. It just emans they deal differently. So much of our problems with eachother is not being able to communicate well and expecting others to be as we are. Not relaistic and the path to pain. bw colin
