--- dsk <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: I think of > it as being on a spiral journey (rather than a > circular one), so I pass > by the same issues but with a slightly different > viewpoint.
That's a really good way to express it. Most of us don't learn the whole lesson on one take. > Thinking of "talk to me" also reminds me of a > discussion with a woman > friend a long time ago. We started by talking about > Sam Shepard and her > saying she liked him so much because he seemed like > the strong silent > type. My reaction was first of all who knows what > Sam Shepard's "really" > like, and secondly that I didn't want anything to do > with any strong > silent type ever again! We'd just seen one of > Shepard's plays, so > obviously the guy has a lot to say and why would he > be silent? That's > just coldness and there's not necessarily anything > strong about it. Here's where I disagree (in part). Some people can express themselves very well in writing but have difficulty talking about things. A silent person isn't necessarily cold (nor is s/he necessarily strong for that matter.) If they're silent, but they write a good love letter, they're probably worth hanging on to. ;} ===== Catherine Toronto ______________________________________________________________________ Post your free ad now! http://personals.yahoo.ca
