Marian wrote:
> <<I was very distressed to see on the news a terrible gay bashing incident in
> Belgrade. There was a small gay pride march yesterday and a group of
> hooligans split up their march and picked them off one by one, kicking them
> and throwing rocks at them, while people cheered. This has to be one of the
> worst things I have ever seen or heard about. I hope that no one died. I
> wish there was something I could do.>>
Marian, Wally and Roberto...
Spent a glorious three days with my Brei this weekend, so I'm just trying to get
caught up with my mail.
I feel compelled to write and say thank you for raising this issue and for
bringing it to the foreground. I know it is something that more often than not,
remains unspoken.
I've taken a long time to respond because I have had a great deal of difficulty
coming up with the appropriate words to express how I feel. I am sad and angry
to say the very least. The issue around gay bashing is near and dear to my
heart. I just wanted to say thank you for having the courage and convictions to
share your feelings. Brian and I talked about it and also find it very
disturbing and difficult. Beyond words. Beyond reason.
I know that I take for granted things we are able to do like holding hands and
showing each other affection in public ... we 'can' because no one thinks twice
about it... we are afterall perceived as 'straight' and yet, if a lesbian or gay
couple does the same thing..many people in the mainstream freak out.
Infuriating. I just do not get it. I've been told that this reaction is based
upon fear...what the hell are they so afraid of? And what is there to hate about
people loving each other?
I joined a Unitarian Church this spring because I am new to this community and
needed to find some spiritual connection but did not want anything traditional.
It is a wonderful place, a place of comfort, kindness and humanity. A place
where the members embrace and celebrate everyone...and especially the gay
community and they mean it. Recently, two women shared in a committment
ceremony. A couple of weeks ago, a lesbian couple's baby was dedicated. I wailed
at that one! It was so moving and emotional and everyone cheered and clapped and
gave them well wishes and presents and support and acceptance. It was truly
beautiful. It gives me hope.
thanks for the opportunity to try to put to words how your posts have affected
us.
love, Magsnbrei
np in the background... Some Mother's Sons, which features the beautiful,
haunting voice of Eleanor McEvoy.
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And this loving is a drawing close,
a tuning in, an opening.
Until one perfect moment;
but how can it be expressed?
A receiving, an enfolding
as I cradle you in my arms.
Within my heart, within my soul,
You are my true love.
--Garnet Rogers
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