Christian Seberino wrote:
On Tue, March 27, 2007 1:39 pm, DJA wrote:
And that risk is what again? And don't bring up anything that has a
biological basis because being married (or not) has no direct causal
relationship with biology.
Are you saying there is no risk you can gather that exists in relationships?
The basic fallacy with your argument seems to be an assumption that
people either don't change, or that if they do change, then at least if
they are in a relationship (the formal version - marriage - seeming to
be the only relationship you accept as valid), they will both change in
the same direction.
Well marriage can't force someone to keep their promise anymore than an
excercise partner can guarantee you'll make it to the gym every week. The
*hope* of course is that when the going gets tough and one feels like
breaking their promises they'll think..."Gee I'm married so I should take
this seriously since it is hard to leave..."
Chris
Would that it were so!
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